Soulmates decisions

Everyone has a soulmate, someone, you're destined to be with your soulmate can vaguely communicate with you by questions demands, and gifts and how your soulmate asks demands or wants to send you something well you see you receive something similar to a phone when you turn 16 and you can communicate with your soulmate and vise versa. But if you ask me about soulmates someone you're destined to be with well it's stupid to me. Why? Because having a soulmate is not realistic nor real. That's what I thought until I moved back home to take care of my sick mother. That's when I ran into him and my opinion, on soulmates changed as well as my normal life