1 Self Help

Let me start off by telling you what this book is really trying to tell you , if you wanna know then here it is this a book that will give you self confidence and self steam boost . It is mainly made for the people above 10 years old and this book/noble is a type of stuff that will help you feel that you your self are a important part of society .

Let, me give an example such as that there was a guy whose name was Charles . He was an alcoholic he was the worst person to ask for help instate of helping you he will make you and never let you get a head , but people only do that so they can feel something good about them self such as "I was able to make a kid cry " or "I was able make him feel sad know I'm feeling great because I'm the strongest and the most fared know " but that's the thing they have a hard time and there lashing it out on someone else so they can feel relived but there will be a cycle created that will effect everyone in the society , like the person that bullied will make you have a bad impact on others and either you will be depressed or you will try to leash your anger on someone in the society that you don't even know what there going threw , but you should not do that kind of activity instead you should try to keep your calm and try to feel what the other person is going threw and try to help him or her by counseling them . Later they will be thankful towards you . As I mentioned the bad impact on the society is some is getting bullied and they will return the fever to someone else and this will happened to others and the cycle will never end .

Self-esteem simply means the overall sense of the personal value and self-worth . If a person has a positive/good self-esteem they wont have that much problem fitting in the society , but if a person has a bad self-esteem simply mean the poor confidence poor self-trust, etc. If a person will have low self-esteem they wont trust anyone including them self and it would lead up into a bad trust and bond with others.

"The desire for more positive experience itself a negative experience . And , the greed for the positive experience it self is a negative experience"

Like this quotation is saying the desire for more positive experience itself is a negative experience because we should never take the things we have got for granted , and we should try to be happy with whatever we have got and if were focused on getting more positive experience the positive experience that weave got right know wont even be there because of the greed. So simply we should not try to take thigs for granted and instate we should enjoy the time. In shot "

"Greed is not they way for success"

"Why is self-help important?" you may think that well because to improve your self-esteem and not only that but to build up your confidence and to have control and not to take things for granted . If self-help can help you and you can help someone like that you will be sharing positive guidance to others and the same help that you gave to others will return to you , trust me on this .

"Do good receive good, do bad receive bad"

This quote is also the rule of karma . But there is not time when the good or bad karma will get you the good things or the bad but it may even take live 10-1 minutes and to 1-15 year to 1-80 years who knows?

Self-confidence is as important as your future because if you have a lot of self-confidence you can easily get the jobs that you want you will make many more friends and you wont be uncomfortable while talking with others, but if you have low self confidence you will face many problems such as not being able to talk freely, not able to make many friends, not a open future job what I mean by that term is that you will not be able to talk free in which if your future job is to be a business man that wont happen because you will still have some doubts about your self and you cant express your self to others thinking that they'll think that your wired but your wrong because you yourself are creating something called "Imaginary audience" .

"Imaginary audience" if a type of hallucinations' that your brain will make if you have low self-confidence imagine this your a shy kid and your passing buy the popular kids and if they laugh and you'll think that there making fun fun of you that's called imaginary-audience while you think that the the popular kids will be talking about something else like they'll be joking about something else.

Know you'll be thinking oh well if that "imaginary audience" then why would the other kids look at me and make fun of me ? well that's simply called bellying and you are the person being bullied and the persons that are bulling you are called bullies and you should ignore them and try to focus in your own stuff if there still bulling you then you should try to get help from the elders or your gradian and teachers they will help you find the solution of the problem.

"If you bully someone , then you will also get bullied later onwards"

It is karma.

You may think why is this kid talking about "karma" . What is it?

To some people that don't know about karma its a biological thing that has one rule like do god receive good , do bad receive bad. So, karma is a believed by almost everyone.