1 growing up as a child

life was comfortable growing up in a small and quite town with my family.A town, the number of residents seen outside morning till dawn could be counted.i wont say it was a very small town but everybody minded their business and went to their jobs early In the morning making people hardly seen outside.formal education was very important and every child was enrolled in school.

I attended a private school In a nearby town,life wasnt easy and my mom had to struggle in paying my fees which i was mostly sacked out of class.one may asked(what was your dad doing), my dad had travelled outside the country and I barely knew him because

he travelled when I was only 4years.growing up in african society I experienced so many things and ordeal women go through in marriages, abuse,assult, mistreatment of African girl child go through each and everyday.even in schools we suffered abused from males collegues, women are treated like trash in African society no one respects an african wodown.a man can ask "whats the importance of you women" when i hear these type of statements it saddens my heart and break me down.