Boys should learn things on their own.

"There is nothing that she could explain or change now." Feng Shufen said. His expressions, turning all straight and cold, completely different to the gentleness he has been holding before. 

When Li Xue saw his expressions, she understood what he was thinking. Cupping his face, she made him look at her and then said, "There could be nothing that she could say to explain things to you, I agree. But you also have to agree that she is your mother, for whom you have been looking for all these years. You can't deny that. Also, what happened to me shouldn't change your relationship with her. After all, …" 

Before she could complete it, Feng Shufen interrupted her, "You are the most important factor of my life. If you get influenced by anything, it will gradually affect me. Same goes with relationships." He said and his words were enough to tell how unyielding he was about the topic.