1 loves,pain or gain ...

Do any one of you know what is the meaning of love?How does the words pain,love and/or gain is related to each other?When you love someone from deepest core of your heart..and other girl/boy also love you, more than you later be her...then there will be GAIN of happiness...you can't imagine the extended view of living true life without being loved by someone.Lets talk about PAIN in love. It is not decided by you or your partner,it is decided and governed by the situation or environment created by someone else or you can say that YOURSELF....One sided love,love triangle, financial problems,caste problems, physical disability problem are the real reason behind the pain in love..I think now you can understand about pain.....But notice one thing you really can't take that amount of pain ...if we measure that pain..we can say "THAT PAIN Will ROLL OVER THE EARTH WITH YOUR HEART ON IT".If you want to live a successful love life..then make sure that both of love birds should really love each other.Remember and think about my line given below with your partner."The most stupid person of the world had said that, Everything Is Fair In Love And War" because if this is true then a boy loving a girl for her body,just to use her and then leave and not her real internal beauty,her nice character..then that boy is considered as a illegall lover boy....And that is not correct according to the definition of love...So you should always try to gain as much as happiness as you can by loving someone,loved by someone....Love is a very precious thing nature had given us ....so use it...conserve it...and SPREAD IT...