12 SOCIETY'S AIM IS TO IMPREGNATE EVERY BOY AND GIRL

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LIFE IN 2021:SOCIETY'S AIM IS TO IMPREGNATE EVERY BOY AND GIRL

It's more than obvious, we live in a cold world where society's aim is to impregnate every boy and girl.

Boys falling into the mishap of cultism, using of hard drugs, becoming internet fraudsters, gambling ie Betnaija and other bets, having sex with girls and girls giving in with cold world attributes; cheating, selfishness, envy, hatred, greed etc instilled in both genders. 30% are not impregnated.

The way I was impregnated was due to the fact that I didn't control my sexual urges. I knew that sex isn't everything. I knew that early sex has no profit nor reward but I had it. The wrong shouldn't feel right, Nigerian boys and girls, you guys should stop having sex too much. Early and uncontrolled sex can you inactive towards aspects of your life that needs your energy and attention and an inactive man is an unhappy man - a loser. It also makes you more liable to have an unhealthy marriage later in life. God forbid we be counting sex partners, Banis(girlfriends) as fondly called by Nigerians, while our mates are counting money. Don't rush into sex or make it a priority else you will find it very difficult to attain greater heights in your life which will lead you into depression and regrets especially when you see your mates ahead of you. There is a lot of time for sex after marriage. Sex is a spiritual phenomenon, such that your partner shares the demons that lives in him to you and he shares his own likewise to you, so if he/she is not progressing in life due to the evil spirits in him, transferring it to you, you won't progress likewise.

I want to pass this wisdom to you guys, my fellow youths, boys and girls who are impregnated by society, hopefully I have a bit of roadmap to help guide you guys.

In a boy and girl life, the society we live in makes us. Society breeds bad influence, and we find ourselves in their midst. The pregnates should be kept at arm's length. It's a good thing to show love and compassion to people. It's good to be friendly but it's also important to understand who should be in your inner circle and who you should keep at a distance or even avoid. Proverbs 13:20 says, "He who walks with wise men will be wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm." Pregnant people are out there. The sooner you spot who they are and where they should fit in your life, the better.

First impressions are more important than you can imagine. Would a man want to marry you when your not making a good impression due to your pregnancy for society, the answer is no? Make yourself presentable, from dressing decently and speaking articulately to standing tall and making eye contact. The way you present yourself is the way people will see you and the way people see you will determine how they treat you and the opportunities they give you. Make sure you make a powerful impression.

Society has a good way to impregnate you with investments but your not taking risks. Most of the best things in life usually comes with a risk. Know how and when to take risks. Be wise and strong enough to invest where necessary and be bold enough to take on challenges you encounter.

Society breeds posh boys and girls. "Your such a genuine guy." Is my favourite compliment. This to me is so much better than being told I'm posh. Real people see, recognize and are drawn to authenticity. Believe it or not, most people, especially girls, can tell exactly when you're faking or trying too hard. If you want to draw the right people to you, then just be real with yourself and them, instead of putting up a facade in other to look cool or to be accepted. Being cool is for a moment, but authenticity lasts for a lifetime. Simply put, don't chase people - rather be yourself and invest more in yourself and the right people will come around you. Chasing people leads you to the wrong people and puts you at a huge loss. This also applies to relationships.

Don't do drugs. Drugs makes your mind perverted and your sense of judgement corrupted not to talk of the terrible health effects of drug intake. It's not for men with ambition to take drugs, give drugs to men who have decided to wallow in mediocrity and scornful living. Moreover smoking causes impotence in men. Hope you just quit smoking after reading this.

Pregnant boys and girls, other people can't heal or fix you. Your friends, family and romantic relationships can help you. They can speed up the healing process, support you when things are getting worse with your pregnancy and guide you towards where you should go. They can reveal truths to you that maybe you couldn't see. But in the end, when dealing with deep internal wounds and life establishment, no one can actually fix you. That part is on you and your God.

Just because it "feels right" doesn't mean it is. A lot of people will abandon their previously set moral boundaries because something "feels right". Sometimes things feel right in the moment and are simply destructive in the long run. Feelings are important but acting out entirely on them is a path to destruction. The future is a reality. You'll hear a lot about "live in the present", and you definitely should, but living in the present also comes with the responsibility of making choices right now that will affect your tomorrow. Living in the present is not permission to live like tomorrow doesn't exist because when it comes around, it can be a rude awakening.

Your value is everything. I don't know much about you ladies but for a guy, you're only followed, respected and regarded by your value - what you can offer. A man with less or no value is looked down by society. A man creates himself not find himself. Daily exercise in self - control, knowledge and wealth acquisition gradually creates improvements in your worth. Don't underestimate that. You're meant to be a leader in your home so invest in yourself in order for you to lead well. The lifestyle of a man largely depends on IQ and a higher level of intelligence leads to a better lifestyle.

Dismiss the get rich quick syndrome, take care to only make money legitimately, don't trick people to get favours, don't scam people of their money. Yes your mates will be living large and soft lives, trust me, illegally gotten money does not last. Learn from Hushpuppi's story. Spend more time being productive than on social media. Social media is addictive, never let it control you. Spend more time reading news, spend time on discovery and researching the internet. If you are in the University, study hard, it's just 4 - 6 years of study, after that you can flex your whole life, the sacrifice is worth it. School is not a scam like your mates say, if school is a scam then millions would not be applying for jamb early. You will always enjoy your life later, you still have time, but at 22 never miss that rare opportunity to lay a good foundation for your future. Pay now, play later. Be a gentleman, be a gentlewoman, always smile, help people, help make the world a better place and the sky will be your starting point and the ends of space your limit. You aren't the first to face your difficulties. You guys think that you have it harder than previous generations did but it is not true. If you could make it to where you are now, you can still do better. Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it. Through perseverance many of you will succeed out of what seemed destined to be certain failure. Be strong and keep hustling. Lessen your gratification and double your hustle. Remember, energy and persistence conquers all things.