1 Remedy for love

A: I'm telling you, this love is so not easy. I'm so tired of it now. Can't I just stop now?

B: If you're tired of loving then stop doing it already. Who's forcing you to keep loving?

A: Haven't you heard, there is no remedy for love?

Besides, everyone around me is asking me to stop loving him. Every single person wants me to just give up. But why does nobody understand that the more they ask me to give up, the more I don't want to give up.

B: Are you certain that's called love?

 It seems to me that he has become your stubbornness now. That's why you don't want to give up anymore.

A: So what? Don't you know that there is no love without stubbornness?

B: You can be either stubborn or you can be in love. If you want to keep both then you might end up losing out.

A: I don't want to be that pathetic one who gives up without giving something a shot. Whether I'm a winner or a loser is still undecided. But if I just give up because people are forcing me to do so then I'm gonna regret this for the rest of my life.

B: *silence*

I wish you don't regret being stubbornly in love.

*needle-breaking silence*

B: You're right, there is no remedy for love except for one.

A: What is it?

B: If there is no remedy for love then you should just love more to compensate yourself for the loss.

Losing someone is no big deal. Loving all over again with an even more passion is the real deal now. We only question ourselves after a break up but we forget that perhaps, the person wasn't doing his best as well.

A: *silence*

B: I already told you that not every love story has happy ending. Just like not ever date turns out like a fairytale. Not every person is the right one. We date to look for the right one. If it wasn't this one then we'll date again to find that right one in the next person. All you need to master is the art of catch and release. If they aren't sincere, if they like making excuses, if they expect you to be waiting for them all the time, while they play the game halfheartedly, then you know that's the time to release them and move on.

Their behavior doesn't define your worth.

You're worth whatever you felt while standing before a mirror.

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