she says
depression is a white man's privilege
we do not have the privilege to have that much time to ourselves
she says look
in order someone to be depressed one first must be living, all we have been doing is surviving
She says how do you tell a person they have mental illness one day when there is nothing mental about surviving
just running and running and running and running and trying to not have yuor child witnessed the sound of a bullet going through flesh before they witness the holy sound a vowel can make before it turns into a word that eventually becomes a language and running and running and running
sir we would like a new doctor for my daughter my daughter is not depressed
she says how can one be depressed if your native tongue doesn't even speak of it to its existence
our people do not get depressed
she does not get depressed so sir we would like another doctor for my daughter
the doctor looks at me and asks me what do you think
what do I think
I wonder if he realizes he just told a woman who sacrificed everything to the bone to protect her children for more of a fight cannot protect me from a fight sge cannot help me flee from run from sacrifice from
I wonder if he realizes what that will do to her
I wonder if this is the moment she realizes wars doesn't end when the guns stop shooting maybe that's why the Nile is the loudest thing in this room right now
I wonder why the depression test asked me how often I cry and not why I don't cry at all
I wonder if he realizes the hopes dreams and expectations a my generation is main thing keeping my mother's generation standing
why is my mother sitting?
I wonder if today is the day my mother realizes although she could stop running when she got to the US my generation the Somali diaspora is still running stuck in between two cultures trying to uplift both expectations
we are still running I am still running just not from guns
I wonder if this is the day my mother ties this the Somali diaspora to a white man's privilege
I wonder if today is the day my mother realizes that the Somali diaspora is gaining a fight she cannot protect us from a fight she cannot help us flee from run from
sacrifice from
I look at my mother and I look at the doctor
what do I think
I think wewould like to have a new doctor
and bandages for my splinters from running.