12 FRUSTRATED "HORNY" HUSBAND

Hello, horny and active couples!  

thanks to my wife who introduced.  I have to say that there's a part of me that envy most if not every husband here even though the word of GOD say that we should NOT envy.

My wife and I have been married for over 6yrs now. Before meeting my wife and before accepting JESUS in my life, I used to be VERY sexually active from quickies in the back of the car several times a day at plain daytime or any place we felt like it, to those long sensual, hot passionate love making session with every woman I was, it seems that we couldn't get enough of each other that we were having sex EVERY DAY MINIMUM 3 times a day...

The year I gave my life to JESUS I met my wife, and we rapidly got involved sexually, founding ourselves committing fornication before our creator yet, we kept ignoring the holy spirit telling us to stop. She had not been sexually active for over 5yrs before meeting me.  We started having sex almost every day at least 2times a day, at that time she wasn't working so she would  come over my job and instead of having lunch together,  we were having each other.... THEN, everything changed! , we got pregnant!! We got married before our first baby boy was born; SEX was not in her mind during her pregnancy; we were having sex probably once, pushing it twice a month if that. Now we have three beautiful childrens 5yrs, 3yrs, and 2yrs, and we rarely have sex. After our first pregnancy is like Her sex drive was turn off completely.  There have been times where we have not had sex in months and what BOTHERS me is that she is Ok with it. She doesn't feel like it's a big deal not to have sex.

I sometimes feel I'm living my consequences for committing fornication while we both knew GOD. I don't remember a single day where I would NOT have sex before I became a Christian,  before I became a husband now I've gone up to 2 months without having sex or making love to MY WIFE and the Times we do, I'm the only one who ALWAYS initiates.

As much as I try not to think about it, I feel like I'm leaving a deprive sexual life in which I've allowed frustration enter my life.

I would like to think I'm not the only spouse out there who is going thru this situation. I would appreciate and take any advise, comments or constructive criticism from wives and husbands into consideration.

Thank you.

GOD may continue blessing you with that gift of desire for one another. Like everyone say; "STAY HORNY"

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