1 About Me

I still remember my first relationship and breakup. I was 15 and my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me. I was heart broken and thought that I was going to die. The pain was so insupportable and every morning it felt like someone is taking a rusty dagger and stabbing me in the heart.

Well ever since that very first time, I've gone through that feeling of premature death a lot. Every time I ask myself how did I get here? How come I did not see it coming? Why am I hurting so much? Why did he reject me? What did I do wrong?

That is why I believe that a breakup is not necessarily a bad thing. Oftentimes you can be happy when God is protecting you from a bad relationship. Because God loves you and will show you that he's not the one before it takes a turn for the worse or gets more complicated.

After all, nobody wants to get a divorce, break-up with kids involved or move out of a shared apartment. Essentially, you want to make sure you are ready to get married.