Get the ring! And tell her Raelle is your wife. I don't know why but I want her to realise what is lost is gone forever. And if you can't treasure it someone else will.
Way to go Xian! This may sound cruel but it's the best for everyone to be clear from the start. Bcoz Xian is the one who will suffer the most if this goes on. No one deserves the reopening of the most painful wounds.