SunScar9
family is a bond we can't get rid of so easily even though they don't act like one . we crave for their attention and love and when you get exhausted few people let go but some go into depression but some still have that tiny hope that one day they would be recognised! I'm looking forward to what choice she would make !
understanding Chinese and almost every culture the boy gets everything the men have the rights to women are nothing special Spanish culture because I'm Cuban the man makes the decisions well guess what in my relationships I made the decision that's why I got divorced multiple times cuz I wasn't going to put up with a man telling me what to do I had children I had four boys trust me my sons are male chauvinist pigs not because of me but because of my father my father was a king everybody treated him like the king I love my father my father was my idol but my mother was subservient even though she had an opinion my father would ask my opinion far faster than my mother's and my mother wanted something my father said no my mother put me on to stop spot and ask my father before for what she wanted case in point she wanted to buy a house in Florida the house is 55500 guess what I said for the money I did pay it in full went before before they moved to Florida I got the money I transferred the money to the account that had to be paid off I was in charge up I got a headache when they wanted to sell their house in New Jersey because I was the oldest I was one of the contract for $300,000 I am above everything very intelligent I'm not to do my whole horn I am going to be 69 this year and I've always been in charge of monies a business I was a nurse with 34 years and and any time anybody got sick I was wondering I was in charge of taking care of them and taking them to the doctors and making sure things got done my dad died of Alzheimer's I was his nurse before and after a year later my mother got cancer she only lasted 7 days I was the oldest there for things were run past by me to see what they should do it's hard to be real this is all so hard to be a female and a group of people that believe the males better and that is the truth Hispanic culture says that the man has the right to make decisions and women have to just accept it guess what I didn't accept it and I didn't tolerate male chauvinism in my in my book if he a chauvinist I did put up with it so therefore my marriage has went down the tubes except for my last marriage I hate I didn't have any problems I had one adult and I was widowed with the rest Sam just takes time to get to your parents say that you're not a thing your person and you have rights and you have to you have to talk to them a lot or do you like me I do what I want even now I'll be 69 soon and if I found another man that loves me and took care of me we would still have the same problems I don't give up my opinion counts for everything