A friend or a follower?

"It is okay to be friends," Ryn started again and paused as she watched Rebecca started to look worried, "but when it makes you feel overwhelmed and trying your hard to please her, following her every whim and worried about her reaction, isn't that shows how submissive you are toward her? That's not friendship, not a healthy friendship, anyway."

Rebecca sucked in her breath. Her eyes blinked rapidly as her mind was busy digesting what Ryn just said.

"Well, I can't actually let you think over this right now. I have to go out in five minutes. Can you think over this at your own place?" Ryn looked at her blinking phone and realized the time was running out. 

Rebecca stood up and walked toward the door rather dumbly. She did not even notice how rude Ryn was sending her out. Her mind was busy thinking about the meaning of friendship. Was her friendship with Irene not considered true friendship?