One taboo could be inappropriate power dynamics. For example, if an older man uses his age or position to manipulate a coed in a sexual story, it's considered wrong. Older men are often in a more powerful position in society, and this should not be exploited in sexual relationships.
First, ensure that any relationship depicted is consensual in a healthy way. There should be no coercion or power play involved. For example, both parties should be on equal footing in terms of decision - making regarding the relationship.
Often, an older man's first gay sex experience is influenced by his social environment. If he lives in an area that has become more accepting of the LGBTQ+ community, he may be more likely to explore his feelings. He might start by going to gay - friendly events or places, meet someone there, and gradually develop a relationship that includes sexual exploration. This new experience can be both exciting and intimidating for him as he steps into a new world of relationships.
In 'Gran Torino', Walt is an older man. His relationship with the Asian family next door has elements of him coming out of his shell. While not explicitly sexual, there are undertones of his growth as a person which could be related to his masculinity and how he might have related to women in his past. It's about his transformation and how that could be linked to his past experiences with relationships and sex in a more general sense.
Public discussions should be centered around positive, educational and respectful topics. Coed sex stories are not in line with these criteria. They can make people uncomfortable and violate social norms.
Definitely not. These types of stories are not in line with the values of respect and propriety. Coed showers are meant for normal bathing and personal hygiene purposes, and introducing sexual elements into this context is inappropriate. It can also make people feel uncomfortable and offended.
An older man might have had his first gay sex experience while traveling. He met a charming man in a foreign city. They had a lot in common, like their love for literature. As they spent more time together, exploring the city's bookstores and cafes, an attraction grew. One night, in the man's cozy apartment in that city, they had their first sexual encounter. It was a memorable experience that was also a significant step in his self - discovery journey.
Another theme is about acceptance. In society, gay relationships face various levels of acceptance, and in these stories, we often see how the couple deals with acceptance within their families and social circles. The older man, having more life experience, might have different strategies to handle such situations compared to the younger partner.
In 'Lolita' by Vladimir Nabokov, Humbert Humbert is an older man with a disturbing obsession. His story is not one to be glorified but it shows the extreme side of an older man's inappropriate desires. It's a very complex exploration of abnormal relationships.