One simple way is to focus on general interests and hobbies. For example, if you know someone is into sports, you can start a conversation about the latest sports events or a favorite athlete. By centering conversations around these kinds of topics, there is no room for inappropriate topics like the one mentioned. Also, in a social setting, if inappropriate topics do start to surface, a gentle reminder like 'This is not a suitable topic here' can help keep the conversation on track.
Stories about truckers having positive interactions with families could be a good alternative. For example, stories of truckers helping a family in need on the road, like changing a flat tire for a stranded family or delivering essential supplies to a rural family during tough times.
Without more context, it's impossible to say exactly who 'he' is. It could be a friend, a relative, or even a co - worker who had an impact on the stories about the wife.
One way is to set some ground rules in a group conversation. Make it clear that only positive and appropriate topics are allowed. For example, you can say that the conversation should revolve around hobbies, current events, or family - friendly anecdotes. This way, everyone knows what is acceptable and what is not.
No, it is not appropriate at all. Such stories are vulgar and violate basic moral and ethical norms. Spreading such content is disrespectful to others and can cause great harm to the parties involved as well as to the public's moral values.
It could mean that he had a strong influence or control over the stories related to one's wife. Maybe he was always the central figure or had a powerful say in how the stories about the wife were told.
It could mean he secretly introduced something (like an idea or a small object) into the stories about your wife. Maybe he added a false detail or a new element without permission.