No, it's not okay. Cheating in a marriage is a betrayal of trust. Sharing it in a sex story makes it seem like you're treating it casually. Your marriage is a serious commitment, and if you've made this mistake, the focus should be on how to make amends, not on sharing it in a story. It can also expose private and hurtful information that will only cause more harm.
It's not common. When a husband discovers he has been cheated on, his initial reactions are often shock, sadness, and anger towards his partner. Some might try to work things out, while others may choose to end the relationship. Resorting to revenge affairs is not the norm as it doesn't solve the underlying issues and just creates more chaos.
Well, it's not really common. Most people who cheat would try to keep it a secret rather than share their stories. Sharing such stories can cause a lot of pain and damage, not only to the spouse but also to family and friends. It's a very complex and hurtful situation that is not something to be casually shared.
First, you should stop sharing the story immediately. Then, you need to have an honest conversation with your husband. Be prepared for his anger, hurt, and disappointment. You should take full responsibility for your actions and be willing to accept the consequences, whether it's working on rebuilding the relationship or accepting that it may be over.
One major consequence is the complete breakdown of trust within the relationship. If the husband finds out that not only did you cheat but also share the sexual details, it will be very hard for him to ever trust you again. Also, it can damage your reputation among friends and family.
The husband could consider seeking counseling. If he still loves his wife and wants to save the marriage, professional help might be a way to work through the betrayal and figure out if they can rebuild trust.
Cheating on a partner is a very complex and hurtful situation. I don't have a personal story of this nature, but generally, it often starts with some form of dissatisfaction or vulnerability in the relationship. However, it's not an excuse. It can lead to a breakdown of trust that is very difficult to repair.
No, it is completely unethical. Spreading such a story violates the privacy and dignity of the individuals involved. It can cause great harm to the woman in the story, who is already a victim if the alleged forced drugging and cheating situation is true. We should respect others' rights and not engage in spreading such harmful and unethical stories.
There could be many reasons. Maybe it was a moment of extreme loneliness. If the husband was always away for work and she was left feeling emotionally neglected, she might have been vulnerable to the attention of someone else. It's a wrong decision, but sometimes people make mistakes when they're in a bad emotional state.
Rather than telling a story about a cheating husband in a sexual context, it's better to promote loyalty and respect in relationships. Cheating is not something to be glorified through stories.