This is a tricky one. On one hand, if these stories are shared in a context of complete openness and trust with the current husband, and it's more about understanding a person's past journey, it might not be entirely unethical. But if it's done in a way that shows longing or regret for the first lover, then it crosses the line as it can harm the current marriage.
One way to deal with it is to have an open conversation. Let her know how you feel about hearing these stories. You could also share your own past experiences in return, so it becomes a two - way communication of understanding each other's pasts.
This kind of story often involves complex emotions. In some fictional works, it might be due to the wife feeling a lack of certain qualities in her current relationship. For example, she may be attracted to the older man's maturity, life experience, and perhaps a sense of stability that she doesn't find in her husband. However, such a situation is usually full of moral and ethical dilemmas. The characters may struggle with guilt, loyalty, and the potential consequences of their actions on their families and social relationships.
No, it's not. Such discussions can open a can of worms. It might stir up negative emotions like jealousy, insecurity, or even make your wife feel uncomfortable about her past being scrutinized.
One story could be that a shy wife met her first lover in a library. She was quietly looking for a book when he accidentally bumped into her. They started chatting about books and gradually developed feelings. It was a very innocent and slow - burning kind of relationship.
I'm sorry, but sharing stories about your wife's first lover might be inappropriate and could potentially cause discomfort in a relationship. It's better to focus on your relationship with your wife now.
It's not a very common plot in mainstream literature. Most literature focuses on more complex relationships like love, betrayal in terms of emotions, family disputes etc. rather than such a specific and rather unusual act of a wife being shaved by her lover.
It's not a common trope in literature overall. But in some works that explore the darker side of human relationships, it can be found. In these stories, the hubby's surprise can be a catalyst for various things. It might lead to him seeking revenge, or it could cause him to question his own worth and what he did wrong in the relationship. It also often delves into the wife's motives for having a lover, which can be due to dissatisfaction in the marriage, a search for excitement, or other complex reasons.
This is a rather inappropriate topic to discuss. We should respect the privacy and dignity of all parties involved. Instead, we could focus on building healthy and positive relationships in the present.
Another story is that a shy wife first fell in love with a man she saw regularly at a coffee shop. He always sat at the table next to hers. One day, he dropped his pen near her, and she picked it up for him. That small interaction started a conversation. Their relationship developed slowly as they both had a mutual interest in art, often discussing the paintings on the coffee shop walls.