Time is also an important factor. It won't happen overnight. The couple may need to go through a period of rebuilding the relationship gradually. This could include doing things together that they used to enjoy, like going on dates or taking walks. Little by little, trust can be restored as long as both are committed to the process.
No. Just because she is a wife and may seem passive doesn't mean she is automatically the aggressor in an affair's sexual aspect. There could be many factors at play and blaming her like this is unfair.
A sudden change in her appearance for no obvious reason could be a sign. Maybe she starts dressing more provocatively or pays extra attention to her looks all of a sudden.
A wife affair story might be as follows. The wife, Lisa, met a man at a local gym. He seemed charming and they started chatting regularly. As time passed, she found herself thinking about this man more than her husband, Mark. She started to make up excuses to see him. Mark became suspicious when she was always out on 'errands'. When he confronted her, she admitted that she had developed feelings for the other man. However, she realized she still loved Mark and they worked hard to rekindle their relationship.
She might become the aggressor if she feels a strong attraction to the other person in the affair that she can't resist. This could overpower her usual passivity and make her take the lead sexually.
Well, this might mean that in the context of a story about an extramarital affair, the wife, who is usually thought to be passive in the relationship, actually becomes the aggressor when it comes to sexual matters within the affair. It shows that our assumptions about people's behavior based on their general demeanor can be wrong. Maybe she has been suppressing her desires or feelings in the normal marriage, and in the context of the affair, she lets them out in a more aggressive way in the sexual aspect.
If you suspect your wife is having an affair, first, communicate openly. Try to have a calm conversation with her about your concerns. For example, say 'I've noticed some changes lately and I'm feeling worried. Can we talk about our relationship?'
No. Such topics involve private and often unethical aspects of relationships. They are not suitable for public discussion as they violate people's privacy and can cause harm to those involved.
No, such stories are not appropriate. They involve unethical and private matters that can be disrespectful to others. We should focus on positive, moral, and respectful topics in our conversations and media consumption.