It's not common in most traditional relationships. However, in modern relationships where people are more open about their sexualities, it can happen. But it's important to note that if it makes you uncomfortable, it's not okay for your partner to keep it from you.
One way to overcome the shock is to engage in self - reflection. Think about your own role in the relationship. Maybe you haven't been as attentive to her needs as you should have been. Also, you can go for a walk or do some exercise to clear your head before approaching the situation with your wife.
First, try to stay calm. Have an open and honest conversation with your wife about why she has such an item and how it makes you feel. Maybe she has some unmet needs or it could be part of her personal exploration that she hasn't been able to share with you.
Well, it's a really tough situation. You could seek the help of a relationship counselor. A professional can guide you both to understand each other better. It might be that your sexual relationship needs some re - evaluation and improvement. And it's important to respect each other's feelings during this process.
Let's say the petite girlfriend was at a flea market. She came across a black object that resembled a dildo. But it was a unique bottle opener. She bought it and took it to a party. When she showed it to her friends, they all had a good laugh about how it looked at first. Then they used it to open bottles all night long. It became a fun and unique party accessory. And her boyfriend thought it was really cool how she found such an interesting item.
Sharing such sexual stories is inappropriate and not suitable for public discussion. We should focus on positive, respectful and family - friendly topics.
One possible story could be that a petite girlfriend found a black dildo - shaped object that was actually a unique art piece. She was intrigued by its shape and design. She brought it home to show her partner, and they had a laugh about how it looked like a dildo but was actually a creative art piece. They then decided to find a place for it in their home as a conversation starter.
No, it's not a common type of story. Such a story with this specific topic is rather niche and might be considered inappropriate or too private for general discussion.
Sharing such explicit sex stories is not appropriate. These are private and often involve vulgar and inappropriate content that goes against social ethics and good taste.