One common theme could be power play. The man's dominance creates a clear power dynamic that can be explored. Another might be submission, as the other characters (usually female) are often in a submissive position.
In bdsm stories, 'man dominates' might imply that the male figures are the ones who typically hold the power or authority. This could be shown in various ways, such as in the power dynamics between the characters. For example, the man might be the one dictating the rules of a particular bdsm encounter, or being the more dominant force in a relationship that has bdsm elements. It could also be related to how the story is structured around the male character's dominance, with the plot and other characters' actions revolving around this dominance.
One example could be in 'A Separate Peace' where there are elements of an older boy having a certain dominance over the main character. This dominance affects the relationship and the growth of the characters in the story.
In some fantasy stories, a male wizard or warrior might dominate a shemale sidekick. The man has greater magical powers or combat skills and thus calls the shots. He decides which quests they undertake and how to deal with enemies. The shemale character, though having their own abilities, is in a secondary position in terms of the overall dynamic.
In a sports story, there might be a female athlete who is physically and mentally stronger than her male counterparts in a co - ed sport. She dominates the game through her superior skills, endurance, and competitiveness. This challenges the traditional view that men are always stronger in sports.
Often, there can be a sense of coming - of - age. The boy next door might be learning from the man, and through the domination (not in a negative sense always), he is growing up. For example, if the man is a skilled carpenter and he dominates the learning process for the boy next door who wants to learn carpentry, it's a form of growth - related domination.
I think the element of trust building between the characters in a good man BDSM story is really interesting. Plus, the way it challenges societal norms and stereotypes can make for a thought-provoking read.
In some cases, it can also be a way to create conflict or drama. The domination of the man over the shemale can be a source of tension, especially if the shemale character rebels or tries to assert their own agency. But overall, it still adheres to a rather unequal view of gender roles. It might be time for more stories to break this mold and show more balanced relationships between male and shemale characters, or even reverse the dynamic to show different possibilities in storytelling.
One common theme could be the role reversal in power dynamics. For example, in a professional setting where the woman is the boss and the man is her subordinate, and the story might explore how they navigate this new relationship. Another theme could be in a romantic context, like the woman taking the lead in courtship, which goes against traditional gender roles in many stories.
BDSM - related stories are not suitable for general promotion. But if you are interested in stories about good men, you can look into 'The Great Gatsby'. Jay Gatsby is a complex character who has his own ideas of love and loyalty which can be considered in the context of being a 'good man' in his own way.