We should focus on positive, healthy and respectful topics within the LGBT+ community, like their achievements in various fields, rather than such vulgar topics.
Sharing such stories is not appropriate as it involves private and often sexual content that is not suitable for public discussion. We should respect the privacy and dignity of others and abide by social and moral norms.
Always think before you speak. If a topic seems to be veering into vulgar or inappropriate territory, steer clear of it. For example, focus on hobbies, work, or current events instead.
In terms of friendship, these types of stories can teach us that friends need to be non - judgmental. Just because they caught their friend in a situation that might seem strange or different doesn't mean they should shun them. For self - acceptance, it's about realizing that your identity and actions are valid, even if society or friends may initially react in a negative way. For example, if the character in the story is gay and was caught in an intimate moment, they should still hold their head high and accept themselves for who they are, and hope that their friends will come to accept them too. This is a long process but starts with self - love.
I'm not sure if this is a very common story. Each person's experience in the gay community is diverse. There are many different relationships and situations. Some may be more private and some may unfortunately be exposed in a negative way like this, but it's hard to generalize it as a common or rare situation.