A common trait is self - centeredness. Entitled family members often think only about their own needs and wants, like in the story of the cousin who left his mess for others to clean. They don't consider how their actions affect others.
In a family I heard of, a brother thought he was entitled to a larger share of the inheritance just because he was the eldest. He constantly pressured his parents about it and made the family atmosphere very tense. He didn't consider the contributions of his siblings or the fact that his parents might have different plans.
Family relationship stories can influence family members by providing examples. For instance, if there are stories of how grandparents overcame difficulties together, it can inspire current family members to be more resilient in their own relationships.
In my family, my cousin breastfed her twins. It was quite a task. She had to make sure both babies got enough milk. She told me that she sometimes felt really tired but seeing her babies thrive made it all worth it. She also joined a breastfeeding support group where she could share her experiences and get advice from other moms. This really helped her during those tough early days.
One entitled mom story is about a mom at a park. She let her kids run wild on the playground equipment, not caring if they were bumping into other children. When another mom politely asked her to have her kids be more careful, she got really angry and said her kids could do whatever they wanted. It was so unfair to the other kids and parents trying to have a peaceful time at the park.
They can give a sense of identity. Knowing the family's past through these stories helps family members understand who they are. For example, if there's a story of a family member who was a great artist, it might inspire a current family member to pursue art.
Family campfire stories bring family members closer by creating shared memories. When everyone gathers around the fire to listen or tell stories, it's a special time. For example, parents might tell stories from their own childhood, which gives kids a better understanding of their parents' past.
My aunt once decided to paint her entire living room purple, including the ceiling. She said it was to match her new purple dress. It looked really strange but she loved it.