It's offensive. Dick Grayson is a well - known character, and we should focus on his positive aspects like his heroism, his relationships in a non - vulgar way, and his role in the fictional universe. Using such a description not only shows disrespect to the character but also to the fans who appreciate the character for more positive reasons.
Sharing such stories is completely inappropriate. These are private and personal matters that should be respected and not made public in any way. It violates the privacy and dignity of the individual.
If we assume 'dick to big stories' is some sort of creative or local expression, perhaps it could mean stories that grow or expand in an unexpected way, like a story that starts small and then becomes really large in scope. But again, this is just speculation without proper clarification.
The characters in these 'Big Dick Brother' stories can also be compared. There could be strong, heroic characters who are fearless and always ready to take on challenges. For instance, a character might be brave enough to fight off a group of bandits in one story. Then, there are the more vulnerable characters, who might be the ones in need of help. These characters can add depth to the story as the heroic characters step in to protect or assist them.
The key here is communication. Sit down with her and ask her why she is doing this. Try to understand her perspective. But also make it clear that this behavior is not acceptable in a relationship. If she is willing to work on it, you can consider giving her a chance. For instance, you could suggest activities like couple's therapy or reading relationship - building books together. But if she shows no intention to change, then it's probably best to end the relationship.
Most literature focuses on more positive, relatable and acceptable themes. Stories about bullying are common, but this specific and rather vulgar - sounding combination is not something that pops up in traditional literary canons. However, in some alternative or shock - value - seeking independent writing, there might be something remotely similar, but it's not a widespread or well - documented area in literature.