Another theme is the breaking of social norms. Society may not always accept an older woman - young man relationship easily. So, in these novels, characters often have to fight against prejudice. Like in 'Forbidden Love' (a made - up title for illustration), the couple has to deal with the stares and whispers of people around them. This adds drama and depth to the story. Also, self - discovery is a theme. Both characters usually grow as individuals as they fall in love, realizing new aspects of themselves that they hadn't known before.
'Mrs. Robinson' in 'The Graduate' inspired some novels with the theme of a young man and an older woman. These types of novels often explore the taboos and the different outlooks on life that the age gap can bring. They can also show how the two characters can learn from each other and grow in unexpected ways through their relationship.
One such novel is 'The Summer of You' which beautifully portrays the relationship between an older woman and a younger man. The story delves into their different perspectives and how they overcome various obstacles in their love journey.
Social disapproval is often a theme. Society may frown upon such relationships due to age - gap - related prejudices. In many novels, the couple has to face the judgment of their families, friends, and the community at large. They have to decide whether to conform to social norms or follow their hearts.
Atonement by Ian McEwan also features a young man's infatuation with an older woman. Robbie, a young man from a lower - class background, has deep feelings for Cecilia, an older girl from a wealthy family. The story is filled with love, misunderstanding, and the long - lasting consequences of a false accusation.
In a small town, a young man volunteered at a community center. There, he met an older woman who was in charge of a gardening project. The young man, having a passion for plants but not much experience, joined her project. She taught him about different plants, how to take care of them, and the history of the local flora. Their relationship was one of mentorship and friendship, with the young man learning a great deal from her wisdom.
There was a young man, Jack. He was new in town. At a community event, he met a sexy older woman, Susan. Susan was a well - known local for her charm. Jack was immediately drawn to her grace. They started chatting, and Susan shared her stories of the town's history with Jack. Jack, in turn, told her about his dreams. They began to meet regularly, Susan mentoring Jack in some ways, like helping him with his job search. Their relationship was based on mutual respect and the exchange of different life experiences.
One possible reason could be that in some alternative or role - playing relationships, the young man might be into a particular form of discipline - based role - play. He could see the older woman as a figure of authority. Another reason might be that he has some psychological need for attention or a unique form of physical contact that he wrongly associates with this rather strange request.
She should first make it known that such a request is not acceptable in a civilized society. Then, if she is in a position to offer some guidance, like a teacher or a mentor, she could suggest that he seek professional help if he has some underlying issues that lead to such an unusual request. For example, she could say 'I'm sorry, but I can't fulfill this request. If you have some problems or needs that make you think this way, you might want to talk to a psychologist.'