The relationship could develop through communication. If Molly tries to control Harry, they could have some heart - to - heart talks. Harry could express his feelings about being controlled, and Molly could explain her motives.
One key element could be the power dynamic between Molly and Harry. Maybe Molly has some reasons, like a motherly instinct, to try and control Harry's actions or decisions in the fanfiction world.
One possible scenario could be Ginny trying to control who Harry spends time with. For example, she might not like him being around Hermione so much because she's jealous. Another could be her trying to control Harry's actions in the wizarding world, like which quests or missions he undertakes. Maybe she thinks some are too dangerous and tries to stop him forcefully.
Well, in some fanfictions, Harry might initially be confused. He's used to Hermione being bossy but not this level of control. He could resist in a quiet way, like ignoring her suggestions more often.
Harry would also be very protective of Hermione. He would likely step in between Molly and Hermione, using his status as the Boy Who Lived if necessary to defuse the situation. He might try to reason with Molly, reminding her of all the good things Hermione has done for them and for the wizarding world.
Harry might initially be confused. He has always looked up to Dumbledore, so when he realizes Dumbledore is trying to control him, he could start to question everything he thought he knew about their relationship. He may become more rebellious as a result, trying to break free from Dumbledore's influence and make his own decisions.
Ron would probably be horrified. He loves Hermione deeply, and his mother has always been an important figure in his life. He would be caught in a really difficult situation. He'd likely try to stop his mother immediately and protect Hermione.
One possible motive could be jealousy. Maybe Molly is jealous of Hermione's close relationship with her son Ron. Another could be that she feels Hermione is a bad influence on the family in some way, perhaps her non - pure - blood status makes Molly, who has some traditional views, act out. Or it could be a misunderstanding, like Hermione being wrongly accused of something that makes Molly think she's a threat to the family.
It could also be that Dumbledore has some secrets that he's afraid Hermione will uncover if she's left to her own devices. Hermione is known for her inquisitive nature. So, to keep these secrets hidden, he attempts to control her. For instance, if there are some hidden aspects of Hogwarts' history or certain faculty members that he doesn't want exposed, he might use control over Hermione to prevent her from delving too deep.
One possible reason could be that she might think Harry is putting himself in unnecessary danger, like when he goes off on his own to face Voldemort without a proper plan. Molly is very protective, and she may feel frustrated with Harry's recklessness.