There are many men/women who have never been loved in Jin Yong's novels. The following are some examples:
1 Mei Niansheng: Mei Niansheng was a character in Jin Yong's novel, The Legend of the Condor Heroes. Although he was born into a prestigious family, he had never liked love life. He was very cold to relationships and had never loved any woman.
2 Xiao Feng: Xiao Feng was a character in Jin Yong's novel, Eight Dragons and Eight Bullets. Although he was a hero, he had never loved any woman.
3. Linghu Chong: Linghu Chong was a character in Jin Yong's novel, Smiling Proud in the World. Although he was a man of Jianghu, he had always been indifferent to his love life and had never loved any woman.
4. Abbess Annihilation: Abbess Annihilation is a character in Jin Yong's novel, The Heaven Sword and Dragon Sabre. She was a very cold-blooded killer with no interest in love and had never loved any man.
5. Yue Buqun: Yue Buqun is a character in Jin Yong's novel,"Smiling Proud in the World." He was a hypocrite. On the surface, he looked very glorious, but deep down, he was filled with selfishness and evil. He had never loved any woman.
Fan Xian had never been loved by his biological father. Fan Xian's biological father was the Qing Emperor, but the Qing Emperor did not treat Fan Xian well. He had even wanted to kill him several times. On the contrary, Fan Xian's adoptive father, Fan Jian, was filled with sincere love for him and raised him as if he were his own son. Fan Jian even had a face-to-face dispute with the Qing Emperor for Fan Xian's safety. Thus, it could be concluded that Fan Xian had never been loved by his biological father.
Fan Xian had never been loved by his biological father. Fan Xian's biological father, the Qing Emperor, did not treat him well. He had even wanted to kill him several times. The Qing Emperor treated all his sons badly. He only cared about power and did not care about anything else. Although the Qing Emperor had once felt that Fan Xian was somewhat similar to him, he later discovered that Fan Xian was more like him. Fan Xian's adoptive father, Fan Jian, treated him very well and treated him as his nephew. He had never done anything harmful to him. Fan Jian even put Fan Xian under his name, making him an unspeakable secret. Chen Pingping was also filled with love for Fan Xian. He saw him as his own child and did his best to protect and take care of him. Fan Xian had never been loved by his biological father, but he had received the sincere love of his adoptive father and Chen Pingping.
According to the information provided, Fan Xian had never been loved by his biological father. Fan Xian's biological father was the Qing Emperor. However, the Qing Emperor did not treat Fan Xian well. He had even wanted to kill him several times. The Qing Emperor did not treat all his sons well. He only cared about power. Other aspects were not important to him. Although the Qing Emperor had once felt that Fan Xian was somewhat similar to him, after Fan Xian appeared, the Qing Emperor discovered that Fan Xian was the person who was truly similar to him. As the Qing Emperor and Chen Pingping discussed the heir to the throne, the Qing Emperor did not respond to Fan Xian's suggestion. He only laughed loudly. Thus, it could be concluded that Fan Xian had never been loved by his biological father, the Qing Emperor.
Fan Xian had never been loved by his biological father. Fan Xian's biological father was the Qing Emperor, but the Qing Emperor did not treat Fan Xian well. He had even wanted to kill him several times. The Qing Emperor did not treat all his sons well. He only cared about power and did not care about anything else. Although the Qing Emperor had once felt that Fan Xian was somewhat similar to him, after Fan Xian appeared, the Qing Emperor discovered that Fan Xian was the person who truly resembled him. The Qing Emperor's love only existed when Fan Xian did not threaten his status and interests. It could be said that Fan Xian had never received the sincere love of his biological father, the Qing Emperor.
Well, it could be that the love you're receiving is a result of a long - built connection. Maybe you've both been through a lot together, and that has strengthened the bond. Also, sometimes it's about the way the person expresses their love. They might use actions more than words, like always being there for you when you need them, which makes the feeling of being loved more intense. It could also be that you've been lacking this kind of love in the past, so when it finally comes, it feels extremely intense. For instance, if you grew up in a cold family environment and then someone comes along and shows you warmth and love.
I can't provide the novel If I Never Loved You. This novel didn't match the situation described in the title because it was about a secret love story, and a secret love usually didn't end in an overly cruel way.
This question involves many complex emotional and moral factors, and I can't give a simple answer.
Love was a complex and profound emotion that involved not only physical appearance and physiological characteristics, but also personality, hobbies, cultural background, and many other aspects. A blind girl may face more challenges and difficulties and need more love and support, but these difficulties should not be the criteria for you to choose a partner.
When looking for a partner, you should consider your own values, interests, hobbies, family background, and many other aspects. You shouldn't choose a partner just because others have never loved you. Love required both parties to work hard and pay, not one-sided waiting.
I suggest that you seriously consider your emotional needs and find someone who truly loves you and cares about you instead of choosing a partner just for comfort or the feeling of being loved.