Well, it depends on how he 'came in'. If he just walked into a room you were in without knocking, it might be a simple lack of manners. In that case, you can just mention it casually like 'Hey, it's a bit rude to just come in without knocking'. But if it's in a more intrusive way, like invading your personal area or making you feel threatened, then you need to take more serious action. Notify your friend or an adult you trust right away, and don't be afraid to speak up about how it made you feel.
Reacting to this situation can be tricky. Firstly, it's important to realize that it's a normal physical response. If you feel embarrassed, try to relax. Maybe start a conversation about how much you love her and how she makes you feel. This can not only ease the situation but also strengthen your emotional bond. And if the situation allows, you can take the opportunity to have a more intimate moment, but always with respect and communication.
That's really an awkward situation. You could just step back and try to laugh it off casually, saying something like 'Oh, that was unexpected!'.
React with an open mind. Since you don't know the nature of these stories yet, it's important not to overreact. Listen to what your friend has to say. If the stories are positive and about good times, it can be a great opportunity to bond further. However, if you sense any oddness or discomfort, then you may need to have a more serious talk with your friend about boundaries and respect for your relationship.
First, have an open conversation with her. Ask her why she wants to do it. If it's just for fun and she doesn't realize how it might seem, gently explain your concerns. If she still insists, you might need to set stricter boundaries and remind her of the importance of your relationship and loyalty. You could also talk to your friend privately and let him know that this is not acceptable behavior in your marriage.
You could take a step back, say 'Excuse me' in a light - hearted way and then start talking about something else. For example, you could start a conversation about the weather or a recent event. This way, you can shift the focus away from what just happened and make the situation less awkward.
If you have some concerns, like privacy issues, you can have an honest conversation with her. You can say something like 'I'm not sure if I'm comfortable with that. There are some parts of our story that are very private to us.' This way, you can set boundaries.
First, you need to stay calm. It could be an accident. Talk to your friend privately and firmly tell him it's inappropriate. Then, have an open and honest conversation with your girlfriend to see how she feels about it.
You could just ignore it. If you don't want to engage with your ex, then act like it didn't happen.
Ignore it. Sometimes, if you don't give any reaction, your friend will stop. They might be doing it to get a rise out of you, and when they see that it doesn't work, they'll find something else to do.
Well, it's a really awkward situation. Try not to stare or make your friend feel more embarrassed. If you are in a private place, you can just act casually as if it's not a big deal, like saying 'Hey, no problem, we're all friends here, but you might want to get dressed soon'. If it's in a more public area, try to find a way to shield them from others' view.