If communication doesn't work, involve the program coordinators. In some of the horror stories, the situation got out of hand because no one in authority was informed. The coordinators can mediate and set some rules. Another way is to try to find common ground. Maybe you can suggest activities together like going to a Disney event on campus. This might improve the relationship. Also, if possible, try to create some personal space within the shared room. Use dividers or arrange the furniture in a way that gives you both some privacy, which could have helped in those horror story situations.
In situations like the ones in the horror stories, it's important to document the problems. If your roommate is stealing or being really unruly, keep a record of what's happening. This can be useful if things escalate. Also, try to be empathetic. Maybe your roommate is going through something that's causing their bad behavior. However, don't tolerate behavior that makes you uncomfortable. If they are being too noisy at night, you have the right to ask for quiet. You can also try to find a compromise. For instance, if they like to listen to music, suggest using headphones. These strategies can help turn a potentially horror - like roommate situation into a more positive one during the Disney College Program.
First, communication is key. Just like in the horror stories where roommates had issues, try to talk to your difficult roommate calmly about the problem. For example, if they are messy, say something like 'Hey, we need to keep the place clean together'.
If direct communication doesn't work, involve a mediator. This could be a Resident Advisor in the dorm. They are trained to handle these kinds of roommate disputes. They can listen to both sides and come up with a fair solution. For instance, if one roommate is too noisy and the other is too sensitive to noise, the RA might suggest quiet hours or using headphones.
If you have a difficult roommate, communication is key. Sit down and talk to them about the issues you're having. Be honest but also respectful. For example, if they're messy, say something like 'I noticed the apartment is getting really dirty, and it's starting to bother me. Can we come up with a cleaning schedule?'
One horror story could be a roommate who was extremely messy. They would leave dirty dishes everywhere, clothes all over the room, and never clean up after themselves. It made the living space unbearable and unhygienic.
You should be respectful yet firm. If your roommate is borrowing your things without asking, tell them it's not okay. Try to understand their perspective as well. Maybe they have some habits because of their upbringing. But don't tolerate behavior that makes you uncomfortable for a long time.
If your roommate brings unruly guests, communicate clearly that there are limits. Suggest alternative places for parties. If they don't listen, you can talk to the housing department. And for a food - messy roommate, you could buy some sealed containers together and encourage them to use them. If the problem persists, again, involve the appropriate authority. Remember, communication is key, but sometimes you need to take further steps to protect your living environment and well - being in the university dorm.
My roommate used to steal my things. Small things at first, like pens and notebooks. But then it got worse. He took my expensive headphones. When I confronted him, he denied it until I found them in his stuff.
Once, my roommate thought it would be funny to hide all my left shoes. I was running late for class and couldn't find any of them. When I finally found them in the microwave (of all places), we both had a great laugh.
I heard a story where a roommate was really noisy at night. He would play loud music and talk on the phone late into the night. This made it impossible for his roommate to study or sleep well. The situation got so bad that the affected roommate had to move out in the middle of the semester.
A really bad type is the roommate who brings in unwanted guests all the time. It makes you feel like you don't have any privacy or control over your living space. And sometimes these guests can be rowdy or disrespectful too.
Some participants also faced mean - spirited coworkers or supervisors. There were reports of being bullied or given tasks that were far beyond what was reasonable for their position just because they were part of the college program. This made the work environment really unpleasant and stressful.