A very typical first kiss gone wrong is when there's a lack of coordination. Maybe both people are so nervous that their lips don't meet properly, or they end up kissing more on the chin or cheek instead. Also, if there are distractions around, like a really loud noise or someone suddenly shouting. I knew a couple where during their first kiss, a dog started barking right next to them and it completely ruined the moment. It made them both jump and the mood was just gone.
My first kiss was a total mess. I was on a date and we were in a park. I thought it was the perfect moment. But as we kissed, I accidentally bumped my nose into hers really hard. She winced in pain and we had to stop. I apologized over and over. It took a while for the awkwardness to go away.
One of my friends had a first date at a nice restaurant. She accidentally spilled red wine all over her white dress. It was so embarrassing. The date just went downhill from there as she was so flustered.
Another is differences in behavior or habits. For example, if one person is really messy or has bad table manners. I had a date once who chewed with their mouth open, and it was really off - putting. Also, disagreements on important topics like religion or politics can make the date go wrong as I experienced when an argument broke out during a first date.
Well, once I had a first date at a nice restaurant. I got there on time but my date was an hour late. And when he finally showed up, he was on his phone the whole time, texting and not really paying attention to me. It was so frustrating.
One common element is bad weather. Snowstorms can disrupt travel for guests, deliveries of food and presents. Another is cooking disasters like the ones I mentioned before. Also, technical problems like power outages are quite common. It can ruin the lighting on the Christmas tree and the use of electrical appliances. Family disputes can also be a part of it. Stress during the holidays can lead to arguments that put a damper on the Christmas spirit.
Jealousy is a common reason. When one partner in a cuckold - related situation can't handle seeing their significant other with someone else, it often leads to problems. For example, they might start arguments or become controlling.
Well, a common one is when someone plans a big surprise date, like a concert. But they forget to double - check the tickets and find out they are for the wrong day. Another is when a person tries to bake a heart - shaped cake for their partner but it comes out looking like a lumpy mess. Also, there are cases where people get into an argument right on Valentine's Day because of high expectations that aren't met. For example, one partner might expect a very expensive gift and the other only gives a simple card. This can lead to a lot of disappointment and a ruined Valentine's Day.
Just laugh it off. If something embarrassing happened like spilling a drink, making a joke about it can ease the tension. For example, say 'Well, at least we'll always remember this date!'.
One common consequence is that the relationship becomes toxic. For example, instead of love, there is excessive jealousy or possessiveness.
Differing values are a common reason. For example, one family might value material possessions highly while the other values experiences more. This can lead to conflicts when swapping wives as they try to impose their values on the new family.