You can start by showing interest. For example, say something like 'That sounds really interesting. Tell me more.'
Listen attentively and ask relevant questions. If she's talking about a fantasy adventure, you could ask about the characters in her story. This shows that you are engaged in what she's sharing and value her creativity.
Share your own thoughts or similar experiences if you have any. Maybe you've had a related daydream or read a story that has a similar theme. This can make the conversation more interactive and strengthen your connection as a couple.
If a daughter shares an inappropriate story with the family, it's important to stay calm. First, gently interrupt her and let her know that the story is not suitable for family discussion. Then, depending on her age, have an age - appropriate conversation about appropriate topics for family sharing.
One should firmly and politely ask the friend to stop. Such stories are inappropriate and not suitable for sharing in a general social context. For example, you could say 'These stories are not appropriate for this setting, please refrain from sharing such things.'
Ask her for clarification. Simple questions like 'What do you mean by that?' can help you get a better understanding.
Just listen attentively and show your genuine interest. Say something like, 'That sounds really interesting' or 'I'm here to listen.'
First, she needs to recognize her own feelings and not dismiss them. Then, depending on the relationship with the person involved, she can take different actions. If it's a stranger, she can simply walk away. If it's someone she knows well, like a family member or colleague, she can communicate clearly. She might say something like 'I found that story really inappropriate and it made me uncomfortable. Please don't share such things with me in the future.' By being assertive, she can protect her own emotional state.
You should listen attentively. It shows that she trusts you with her imaginative thoughts.
You could start by showing interest and maintaining eye contact. Maybe nod or make affirming sounds like 'mm-hmm' to let them know you're engaged.
You could start by showing empathy and saying something like, 'I'm so sorry you're going through this.'
He could start by asking her why she is sharing this story. This simple question can open up a conversation and help him understand her motives.
You should firmly tell the person that this is inappropriate and you don't want to hear it.