Well, it could be a form of wanting attention. Maybe you saw that your friends got a lot of focus after being spanked, like your parents or guardians were really concerned about them. So, subconsciously, you thought getting spanked would also get you that same kind of attention. Another reason could be that you were just curious. You didn't really know what it felt like and your friends' experience made you interested in finding out for yourself.
One possibility is that you have a sense of fairness. You thought if your friends got spanked for whatever reason, perhaps you should be spanked too if you were in a similar situation. It might seem strange, but kids often have this idea of equal treatment, even when it comes to punishment. Also, it could be that you just like to be part of the group. Since your friends had this 'experience' of getting spanked, you didn't want to be left out.
First, you should talk to someone you trust, like a parent or a teacher. Explain to them that you have this strange feeling. They can help you understand why spanking is not a good thing and why you shouldn't want it. For example, your parents can tell you about more positive ways of discipline and how spanking is actually a form of harm.
It could be the subject matter. If it deals with topics like violence, death, or difficult relationships in a way that you find too intense, that might make you not okay with it.
Just be honest and straightforward. Say something like 'You spanked me and it made me really uncomfortable. We're friends and that's not something friends should do.'
Support her by taking practical steps. If she needs medical attention, take her to the doctor. Also, help her through any legal processes, like going to the police station with her or helping her talk to a lawyer.
It could be because you're really engaged and the emotions in the story are affecting you physically.
It could be that the story is very intense or emotional, triggering a physical response in you.
Unrequited love is a very complicated and painful feeling because the secret admirer often doesn't know if his other party has the same feelings for him. Here are some of the feelings that a secret admirer might feel: 1. Strong inferiority complex: The secret admirer may feel that he is not good enough and is afraid that his confession will make the other party reject him. 2. Worry and nervousness: The secret admirer may often worry about whether his confession will make the other party feel uncomfortable or awkward. 3. Endless guesses and fantasies: Secret admirers often imagine the scene of themselves together with the other party in their minds and shape the other party's character and image according to their own wishes. 4. Jealousy and envy: If the secret admirer knows that the other party is already with someone else, they may feel jealous and envious and even think of ways to destroy the existing relationship between the other party and them. Disappointment and despair: If the secret admirer knows that the other party does not feel the same way about them, they may feel lost and desperate and even begin to doubt themselves. Unrequited love was a very painful feeling. It required the secret admirer to face his feelings bravely or confess to the other party directly.
No. Spanking, whether it's like in stories or not, is a form of physical contact that can be inappropriate and potentially harmful. It's not a behavior that should be encouraged in most cases.
Well, it depends on the context. If it was a sort of 'joking' spank in a very light - hearted and friendly way that didn't really bother you much at first but then made you feel a bit odd, you can still have a conversation with your friend. Say something like 'Hey, I know you didn't mean any harm, but that spanking thing wasn't really okay with me. We're friends and we should respect each other's boundaries.' However, if it was more forceful or made you feel violated, it's very important to take it seriously. You might need to involve your parents or guardians if you are young, or seek support from a counselor or a support hotline.
It could be that they are tired of arguing or justifying themselves. They think that no matter what they say, the situation won't change, so they choose not to tell their side of the story. For example, if they have been in a long - term feud with someone and every time they try to explain their position, they are met with more hostility, they might reach a point where they just give up.