Power dynamics can be a theme as well. Sometimes one partner may have more power in the relationship, whether it's financial, social or emotional. This power imbalance can create tension and be a major plot point. Novels often explore how the characters deal with this imbalance and whether they can achieve a more equal relationship.
Conflict is another theme. There are often conflicts within the relationship, like differences in values, family interference, or social status differences. For example, in 'Pride and Prejudice', Elizabeth and Mr. Darcy have to overcome their initial pride and prejudice towards each other. And also, the theme of growth is present. As the story progresses, the characters grow and change, which in turn affects their marriage or their view of marriage.
One common theme is the adjustment to a new life together. Couples often have to get used to living with someone else's habits. Another theme is the loss of freedom in some sense, as decisions now involve two people. Also, the theme of family - building, like having children, is quite common in after - marriage novels.
Forgiveness is a common theme. In a marriage that needs redemption, one or both partners often have to forgive the mistakes made in the past. Another theme is self - improvement. The characters usually realize their own flaws and work on themselves to make the marriage better.
One common theme is the struggle for independence. In unwanted marriage novels, the protagonists often fight against the constraints of a marriage they don't want. For example, in 'Pride and Prejudice', Elizabeth wants to choose her own life and partner, not be forced into a marriage like her friend Charlotte who marries Mr. Collins for security. Another theme is the exploration of true love. Characters realize that they don't love their spouses in these unwanted marriages and search for their true love, like in 'Jane Eyre' where Jane ultimately finds true love with Mr. Rochester after escaping an unwanted marriage - like situation with St. John.
Love after marriage is a common theme. In many arranged marriage novels, the couple starts off as strangers but gradually discovers love for each other as they get to know one another better.
One common theme is the exploration of cultural identity within the context of marriage. Black marriage novels often deal with how the characters' African - American heritage influences their relationships, family values, and the way they approach marriage. For example, they might show how traditions passed down through generations play a part in the couple's decision - making.
Betrayal is a common theme. Usually, one spouse has been wronged in some way, like being cheated on or having their trust broken, which leads to the desire for revenge.
One common theme is love conquering all. In major romance novels, marriage is often the result of a deep, passionate love that overcomes obstacles like family disapproval or social differences. For example, in Romeo and Juliet (which can be considered a sort of proto - romance novel), their love led them to a secret marriage despite their families' feud.
One common theme is rediscovery. Couples often rediscover each other, like in 'The Viscount Who Loved Me' where the characters learn new things about their spouses and fall in love all over again.
One common theme is the struggle for power within the relationship. Couples might fight over who makes decisions. Another theme is the clash of personal dreams. For instance, one wants to travel the world while the other wants to settle down immediately. And then there is the theme of in - law problems. In - laws can cause a lot of stress and trouble in a marriage as seen in many of these novels.
One common theme is miscommunication. In these novels, the married couple often misunderstands each other's intentions, which leads to a lot of angst. For example, one might think the other doesn't care when in fact they are just bad at expressing themselves.