First, you could have a private conversation with them. Let them know how their laughter makes others feel uncomfortable or disrespected in those situations. For example, say something like 'When you laughed during the memorial service, it made people around you feel that you didn't respect the occasion.'
One possible story could be in a serious meeting at work. Everyone was discussing a major problem that might lead to job losses. But there was one person who suddenly started laughing because they remembered a silly joke related to one of the words used in the meeting. It was really inappropriate as people were worried and stressed about their future at the company.
You can politely interrupt and change the topic. For example, say something like 'That's interesting, but I just remembered something really cool I wanted to share...' and then start a new topic.
If someone is 'ghosting but watching stories', you could try reaching out one more time in a non - pushy way. For example, send a simple text saying you noticed they've been watching your stories and you hope they're okay. If they don't respond, it might be best to move on and focus on people who are more present in your life.
If someone shares such inappropriate stories, it's important to firmly set boundaries. Let them know that this kind of talk is unacceptable. For example, you can say, 'I don't want to hear such inappropriate things. Please respect my boundaries.'
One way is to simply ignore them if they are not causing harm. Just let them pass by without giving much attention.
You could also be honest and tell them that you've heard the story before. Maybe say something like 'I really enjoy your stories, but I think you've told this one already. Do you have a new one?' It might seem a bit direct, but it can be effective if done kindly.
You could try changing the topic politely when they start. For example, say something like 'Hey, let's talk about something new today!'
First, recognize that it may be a very personal and uncomfortable situation. Try to avoid sharing it widely. Instead, if it involves some family issues that need to be resolved, deal with them within the family in a proper and respectful way. For example, have an open and honest conversation with family members in a non - accusatory manner.
Well, it depends on the relationship. If it's a close friend, I might be more indulgent. However, if it's someone I don't know well, I might try to find an excuse to end the conversation. I could say something like 'This has been great, but I have an appointment I need to get to.' Sometimes, I also try to find common ground where we can have a more concise conversation.
Set clear boundaries within the relationship. Let her know that there are certain topics that are not suitable for sharing. For example, you can say that these types of stories cross the line of what is acceptable in your relationship. Also, encourage her to focus on more positive and healthy topics to share, like family plans or shared hobbies.