A story about a time when you learned a new skill like painting or cooking. You can talk about how difficult it was at first, but with determination you became quite good at it. This can show your perseverance and that you have diverse interests. Well, when you share this on a first date, it gives the other person an idea of your character and what you like to do in your free time. It also provides a topic for further discussion, like if they have any similar experiences or if they want to try that skill too.
One canned story could be about a travel adventure where you overcame some challenges. For example, you got lost in a foreign city but managed to find your way with the help of locals. It shows your ability to adapt and your sense of adventure.
Canned stories can also guide the conversation. If you start with a story about a book you read that had a profound impact on you, it can lead to a discussion about books, ideas, and different perspectives. This kind of in - depth conversation can improve your social interactions as it allows you to connect on a deeper level with others.
One great Dhv (Demonstration of Higher Value) story could be about your travels. For example, 'I was in Thailand once and got to volunteer at an elephant sanctuary. It was amazing to be so close to those gentle giants and help out in their care. I learned so much about their behavior and how important conservation is.'
One funny DHV (Demonstration of Higher Value) story could be about a guy at a party. He started juggling some apples that were on the table when people were just chatting casually. Everyone was amazed and started gathering around him. He then told a joke while still juggling, like 'Why don't scientists trust atoms? Because they make up everything.' This showed his sense of humor and his unique skill, which are both DHV traits in the PUA (Pick - Up Artist) world.
My first date was at an amusement park. We were a bit nervous at first, but once we got on the roller coasters, all the nervousness disappeared. We shared a big cotton candy and took pictures in front of the Ferris wheel. It was a day full of laughter and getting to know each other better.
There was this man in a PUA story. He attended PUA workshops to improve his social skills. He learned how to use body language effectively, like maintaining good eye contact and having an open posture. He applied these skills at a party. He first engaged in a group conversation and then smoothly transitioned to talking one - on - one with a woman he was interested in. His new - found confidence and skills led to him getting her phone number and going on a date later.
A pair went on a motocross first date. Racing around the dirt track on bikes, feeling the adrenaline with every turn and jump. It was a very energetic and thrilling first date. They got to see each other's competitive sides and also had a lot of fun together in this high - energy environment.
On my first date with this person, we went to a cooking class. It was a lot of fun. We were teamed up to make a pasta dish. We laughed as we fumbled with the ingredients and tried to follow the chef's instructions. By the end of the class, not only did we have a delicious meal to eat, but we also had a great time together and got to know each other's sense of humor.
One of my good first date stories was when we went to a local fair. We walked around, tried different food like cotton candy and funnel cakes. Then we went on the Ferris wheel and as we were at the top, we just stared at the beautiful view and started sharing our dreams. It was really a magical moment.
One story is about a PUA who thought wearing a really flashy hat would make him stand out. He walked up to a girl and said 'You must be tired because you've been running through my mind all day.' The girl looked at his hat and said 'Is that hat part of your pickup strategy?' They both burst out laughing. It turned out she was interested in his confidence, not his hat or the line.
One time, my friend was on a first date at a really nice restaurant. They had eaten some beans earlier without realizing. Mid - conversation, a small but audible fart slipped out. They were mortified, but their date just laughed it off and said it was no big deal. It was so embarrassing for my friend at first, but in the end, it actually made the date more relaxed.