One common element is bad hygiene. For example, if the date has a bad smell or dirty clothes. Another is being rude to service staff, like arguing over the bill or being mean to the waiter. Also, self - centeredness, where the person only talks about themselves and shows no interest in their date.
One of my worst first date horror stories was when the guy talked only about himself the whole time. He didn't ask me a single question about myself. He just rambled on about his job, his car, and his achievements. It was so boring and made me feel like he was not interested in getting to know me at all.
One common element is bad communication. Like in my date where the person just grunted in response to my questions. Another is rudeness. I've heard of dates where one person was rude to the other or to the staff at the place. And then there's the lack of consideration, like showing up late without a good reason.
In best date stories, often there is good communication. For example, you both share interests and laugh together. But in worst date stories, bad communication is common. Maybe one person dominates the conversation. Another element in best dates can be a great location like a beautiful beach. In worst dates, the location might be too noisy or uncomfortable.
Well, there was this girl who went on a first date at a fancy restaurant. The guy she was with was constantly on his phone, texting and even taking calls during the meal. He didn't show any interest in getting to know her and she ended up leaving early, feeling really disappointed.
The worst could be finding out the person is a liar. For example, they lied about their job or age. Another bad thing is when the date tries to be too physical too soon. And then there's the case where they are super rude to the staff at the place of the date.
A common one is when there's a long and uncomfortable silence. It can make both people feel really awkward. Another is when the date is too pushy, like trying to kiss or be too physical too soon.
One common horror story is when the date turns out to be a non - stop talker about themselves. They don't let you get a word in edgewise and seem completely self - absorbed. Another is when there is an awkward silence that just lingers and neither person knows how to break it. Also, a date who is constantly on their phone is really annoying. It gives the impression that they are not interested in you at all.
Maybe a date where one person talked only about themselves the whole time. For example, they rambled on about their work achievements, not even asking the other person a single question. It made the date feel like a one - sided monologue instead of a conversation. They were so self - absorbed that it completely killed the mood.
Unfriendly or unhelpful locals can be part of these stories too. Imagine being in a foreign country where you can't communicate well and the locals are not willing to assist you when you're in trouble. It adds a lot of stress to the travel experience.
One common thing in worst job horror stories is overwork. Being made to work long hours without proper breaks can drain you both physically and mentally. Unreasonable demands from the employer are also frequent. For example, expecting an employee to do the work of three people. And lack of respect from colleagues or superiors is another element that can turn a job into a horror story.