First of all, the son has the right to be shocked and disgusted by such a question. He should not be forced to engage in this kind of abnormal conversation. He can express his strong opposition verbally. Then, he can think about writing a letter to his father to convey his feelings more comprehensively, stating that family relationships should be based on positive and healthy values, not this kind of unethical and abnormal topics. And if possible, he can also find an appropriate time to talk to his father together with a trusted third party, like an aunt or uncle who can help mediate the situation.
The son should immediately distance himself from this inappropriate conversation. He could try to have a serious talk with his father at a later time, explaining how such a question makes him uncomfortable and violates family ethics. If the situation doesn't improve, he may need to consider getting help from outside sources such as a family counselor.
The mom should explain to her son that this is not an area she can teach. She could say that sex education is a very special and private topic that is better taught by professionals. Then, she can encourage the son to ask questions about other things like family values, history, or science. For example, she could start a conversation about how the family has certain traditions that are important to uphold. This way, she can shift the focus from the inappropriate topic to something more positive and educational.
It is inappropriate because the son is not ready for such information. Childhood is a time for learning about family, friendship, school, and simple life skills. Sex stories are full of adult - only content that can make the son feel uncomfortable or embarrassed. Moreover, in a family, there are appropriate topics for different relationships. A mother - son relationship should be based on positive, age - appropriate communication, and sex stories are not part of that.
Mom should firmly but gently tell the son that such topics are not appropriate for their conversation. She can say something like 'These are private and adult - related topics, not suitable for us to discuss. If you have questions about puberty or relationships in a general and proper way, we can talk about those with dad or a more appropriate person like a teacher.'
The mom should firmly but gently tell the son that such stories are not appropriate for them to discuss. She can say something like 'Those are not the kind of stories we talk about in our family.'
A father should immediately stop the conversation from going in that direction. He could say something like 'Sweetheart, that's not a proper topic for us to discuss. Let's talk about the fun things we did during our last vacation instead.' Then, he can engage her in positive and age - appropriate discussions to promote healthy communication.
The son should firmly but politely let his mom know that such topics are inappropriate. For example, he could say 'Mom, these stories make me uncomfortable. Let's not talk about this.'
In such a situation, the son needs to set boundaries immediately. He could say something like 'Dad, this is not an appropriate topic to talk about.' And then, depending on the relationship with his mom, he might want to let her know what happened in a careful way. It's important to stop this kind of inappropriate conversation early to protect the family environment and the son's well - being.
Share positive things about your day or your hobbies.
This is completely inappropriate. Such a topic violates ethical and moral boundaries. Family relationships should be based on respect, love, and appropriate communication, not this kind of inappropriate and abnormal topic.
This is a very difficult and inappropriate situation. First, he should respect his mother's privacy and not spread or disclose this discovery to others. He should try to have a private and respectful conversation with his mother or another trusted adult family member, like his father or an aunt, to handle this situation in a proper and sensitive way.