First, give her your full attention. Put away your phone and make eye contact. Nod and use small expressions to show you're engaged. For example, you can say 'uh - huh' or 'really?' at appropriate times. Second, don't interrupt her. Let her tell the story at her own pace. Third, be empathetic. Try to understand her feelings in the story and show that you care.
Just be there for her. Sit comfortably close but not too close to make her feel at ease. When she starts talking, keep your mind focused on what she's saying. You can repeat some key points she made to show that you're listening. And don't rush to give advice right away. Let her finish her story first.
Just focus on her. Look her in the eyes and nod your head to show you're following. Don't interrupt her.
There was a boy named Jack. He was a very smart and hardworking man. He studied computer science in a university and was busy programming and experimenting every day. Although he was very busy, he still found time to go on a date with his girlfriend. They often went to the movies, strolled, or played in the park together. Jack's girlfriend was called Lily. She was a very beautiful and gentle person. She was an artist and often participated in various art shows and performances. Lily and Jack could always feel her creativity and passion when they were together, and their relationship was getting deeper and deeper. One day, Jack received an urgent task. He needed to go to a distant country to carry out an urgent software development work. Lily was very worried about Jack's safety, but he told her that the task was very important and that he had to finish it. Jack had been working in a foreign country for a few months. He would video chat with Lily every day to tell her about his situation. Although they were thousands of miles apart, their feelings were not affected and instead deepened. In the end, Jack finally completed his mission and returned to his hometown. He went to the airport with Lily and was greeted with a warm hug from Lily. Jack told Lily that he was very grateful for her companionship during his time in a foreign country, and their relationship was stronger. They decided to cherish each other more in the future and face the challenges and difficulties together.
Be polite and respectful. Dress neatly and bring a small gift, like a bouquet of flowers or a box of chocolates.
Maintain eye contact with your kid. It shows that you are interested in what they are saying. Also, don't look at your phone or get distracted by other things. React to their story with appropriate facial expressions like smiling when it's a happy part or looking concerned during a tense part of the story.
You might first ask for a brief overview of what the 'did story' is about. If it sounds engaging, then go ahead and listen. But if it seems boring or not your cup of tea, you can politely decline, like 'I'm a bit busy right now, maybe some other time.'
Just stay quiet and focus on the person. Make eye contact if possible.
This is a very complicated situation. First, you need to consider your own feelings. If you don't have romantic or sexual feelings towards your best friend, you should clearly communicate this to them. For example, you can say 'I cherish our friendship, but I don't see you in that way.' If you do have some feelings, then you also need to think about how this might change your relationship in the long run.
You can confront her. Just tell her how much she hurt you by her betrayal. Maybe there was some misunderstanding.
One way is to help her with the household chores without being asked. Cook her a special meal that she likes. Also, you can write her a heartfelt letter expressing your gratitude and love for all she has done for you.
Just be honest and straightforward. Say something like 'I know you betrayed me and it really hurt me.' Keep your tone calm though.