Using erotic stories when you can't orgasm is not a good idea. They can create unrealistic expectations. The answer is to focus on real - life sexual experiences and communication. Talk to your partner about how you feel during sex.
The issue with turning to erotic stories when having trouble orgasming is that they are fictional and may not address the real issues. Maybe there are physical or psychological barriers. Physically, it could be due to health problems, so seeing a doctor might be necessary. Psychologically, stress or past traumas could be factors. You need to address these rather than relying on stories.
Yes, there are many alternatives. Physical touch like caressing or massage can be very arousing. Also, communication with a partner about sexual desires and fantasies can enhance arousal. Watching an erotic movie together might also be an option for some.
If you can't orgasm and are thinking about erotic stories as a solution, it's not the best approach. Instead, focus on building intimacy in your relationship. Intimacy involves emotional connection, trust, and shared experiences. You can start with simple things like having a long conversation with your partner, going on dates, or doing something new together. This kind of emotional closeness can often lead to a more fulfilling sexual experience without the need for such stories.
Erotic stories may not directly lead to orgasm for everyone. Some people might find that they build sexual tension but not reach the point of orgasm due to various factors like psychological blocks, lack of physical stimulation, or individual differences in sexual arousal patterns.
For the most part, they are not appropriate in literature. While literature can explore human sexuality to an extent, orgasm - centric erotic stories cross the line into the realm of pure titillation. It's not in line with the goal of most literature, which is to tell a story, convey emotions, or offer insights into the human condition. There are other ways to deal with the topic of human sexual experience in a more tasteful and appropriate manner.
Another way is to write about adventures. You can create a world full of mystery and danger, and have your characters explore it. Maybe they are on a quest to find a lost treasure or to save a magical land. By building an exciting plot and interesting characters, you can write engaging stories.
We should avoid delving into erotic stories as they cross the boundaries of propriety. There are so many other wonderful topics like the beauty of love, the importance of emotional connection that are far more worthy of our attention.
No. Mainstream literature is aimed at a wide audience including all ages and sensitivities. Erotic orgasm stories involve sexual content which is not suitable for general public consumption in the context of mainstream literature.
Sharing such erotic stories is not appropriate as it involves adult and inappropriate content.
We should focus on positive, healthy and ethical topics rather than stories of this nature.
Yes, they can be. Some literature explores the realm of human sexual experiences, including sleep orgasms, as part of a broader exploration of human sexuality. However, it is not as mainstream as other topics.