Well, sometimes women might not like their boyfriends' stories because the guys tend to go on and on without getting to the point. It can be really boring.
One reason could be that the stories the boyfriends tell are often self - centered. For example, they only talk about their own achievements or experiences without showing much interest in the woman's life. Also, the way they tell the story might be dull, lacking emotion or enthusiasm, which makes it unappealing to women.
They can try to be more concise. Just get to the main point quickly.
Maybe women are more private about their past relationships or tend to move on without dwelling on the crazy aspects. Also, societal expectations might influence how they perceive and talk about their exes.
Well, it could be that cultural and social norms influence the types of stories that are shared. Women's experiences might be framed in other ways, and crazy men stories just aren't the focus. Also, media and storytelling platforms might have biases that limit their visibility.
It seems like your ex-boyfriend is very special. If you want to read this type of novel, I recommend 'I'll Act Coquettishly in Young Master Fu's Arms After Reading' to you. The female protagonist transmigrated into the novel, and Yun Shuiyao became a fan of Gu Beiheng, the infatuated male god. She pursued him in all sorts of ways, but Gu Beiheng did not respond at all. When they reunited, the female protagonist still wanted to take revenge on him, but in the end, she was attacked by Gu Beiheng, who silently protected her. Later, the two of them finally got together, and their relationship was extremely good. I hope you like my recommendation.😗
Because they make me feel depressed. I prefer stories that can cheer me up.
For me, unhappy endings just leave me feeling down and don't give that sense of satisfaction or hope. I prefer stories that end on a positive note.
There were novels similar to Don't Let the System Arrange Boyfriends: 1:"Sister Wild King's Show: Master, Come and Get the Blue", author: Yunsong Orange Juice 2:"Phoenix's Fate Is Hard to Disobey", Author: An Xiyue is Me 3. The Difficult employer of Party A, Author: Meike 4."Coming Against the Wind, In Exchange for Your Glory." Author: The Chess Game 5:"Male Lead Always Wants to Absorb My Spiritual Power", Author: Kong Yunsheng Protect Our Clan Leader, Author: Ao Wuchang 7:"Wear It Quickly Is Not Normal: They Are All on the Edge of Blackening", Author: Qingyin Fushuang 8:"I took out my knife, but the crazy person hugged my waist and acted coquettishly." Author: Qu Wenjun 9:"I'm selling goods in the live broadcast circle. I'm popular." Author: Long Xiaoqing 10:"Running for My Life Every Day When I Open My Eyes", Author: White Wolf Loves You Chapter 11: Forced to the Crematorium After Flirting with a Sick Beauty Substitute, Author: A Desert Slag in the Four Seas and Eight Wastelands, Shuras Everywhere, Author: Big Fruit Chapter 13:"It's so cool to collect cards in a love game." Author: Green Pepper Monster The following is a detailed introduction of these novels: 1:"Sister Wild King's Flipping Show: The Mage Comes to Get Mana": The streamer Cang Yun (Yan Lingling) is a beautiful girl and one of the top ten junglers in the country. Professional player Mo Yu (Mo Qingyu) was the mid-laner of Team ST. She was weak but could take care of herself. A 2,000-point pinnacle match: [Peak Summoner 3 (Stranger Word): I'm a Mage (I don't know Fire Dance in the pre-selection)] [Peak Summoner 1: I'm a Mage (Second choice: Xi Shi)] Stranger Words: …Alright, I'll fill in the spot [Peak Summoner 5 (Gray Cloud): Please help me steal the spotlight.] Peak Summoner 5 (Gray Cloud):"Come, Yao, I'll carry you." [Mo Yu: Qianqian, let's just mingle (Help snatch, pre-select Sister Yao)] Entering the match, this server was indeed killing randomly. Flying Thunder God was about to show off to the other side's high ground! [Mo Yu: Brother, you're amazing.] Cang Yun: It's all because of your support, let me give you a blue, baby Xi Shi with a score of 0-4-8:??? 2."Phoenix's Life Is Hard to Disobey": Mother said: You only need to do your part, there is no need to give deep feelings. Father said,"We don't do evil, and we can't let evil people bully us." His brothers said,"We will support you no matter what you do." Sister said,"Third Sister, don't worry about me." The son said,"Mom, Dad eats too much." What should Yang Xianrong say? 3."The Difficult employer of Party A": Famous neurosurgeon Hua Bi An In addition to his superb medical skills, Beyond the profound knowledge, Elegant, indifferent, cold, unsociable. It was the evaluation others gave her! An emergency invitation to go abroad for treatment. He didn't expect to meet a sinister… A perverse and black-bellied Lord. He forced her to sign a tyrannical treaty! His passport was confiscated, and he had no hope of returning home for the time being. What surprised her even more was that… A patient's condition was concealed. And put her in great danger …… Under a series of conspiracies by the bad guys, Gradually, feelings began to form in her heart… 4:"Coming Against the Wind, In Exchange for Your Glory": Esports Genius Shen Bingci VS Scheming Boy Han Wu Six years ago, Team WIN disbanded and Miracle Dynasty fell. The dynasty's heir, Shen Bingci, disappeared without a trace. Six years later, she returned to the competition as a former teammate and joined the NSe team. On the field, she had to cover her identity so that her captain wouldn't dig deeper into her, and at the same time, she had to resist his seduction and not be taken away by him. Shen Bingci expressed that life was not easy and only wanted to sigh. 5:"Male Lead Always Wants to Absorb My Spiritual Power": Bai Xiao had been wandering in the Ghost Realm for many years and was a character that made ghosts tremble in fear. She would rather die than enter reincarnation. She only wanted to eat, drink, and have fun, and enjoy her retirement leisurely. However, she did not expect that after a nap, the Ghost Realm disappeared, the malicious ghosts and spirits ran away, and the Ghost Realm's treasure disappeared... Yama: "Bai Xiao, you destroyed my Ghost Realm. You'd better go and find the nether stone and the escaping ghosts and malicious ghosts. Otherwise, I'll let you live in the Reincarnation Pool and reincarnate 800 times a day!" "Lord Yama, please rest assured. I guarantee to complete the mission." All the ghosts thought,"Lord Yama, there's no need to trouble yourself. We can go home by ourselves…" ...... Yan Sushang was sealed in a coffin and nourished by the weak spiritual power of this world. The seal was broken and he saw a fatty who was acting foolishly at him. This fatty was covered in spiritual power. As long as he showed a little, he would be able to live. "Great beauty, shouldn't I repay the favor of saving my life with my body?" Yan Sushang looked at the "extremely rich" fatty in front of him, his beautiful and seductive phoenix eyes full of smiles,"There's such a good thing!" Yan Sushang slowly lifted his clothes and lay down on the bed."Xiaoxiao, I'm ready." ........ 6."Protect Our Clan Leader": An interesting family novel that uses modern scientific farming methods to become a clan leader in another world. 7."Wear it quickly and it's not normal: They're all on the verge of blackening": Wu Shan was originally a glorious and noble princess, but because of the mission, her country was destroyed. With the help of the Heavenly Axiom, she also began to "capture" the mission participants. However, why did so many people not play by the rules? The little eunuch used his soul as a matchmaker and crossed the space-time barrier just to meet her again. "Your Highness," he cried before he died."Huan Qi is too stupid. He failed to protect you every time." The young master of the miracle doctor lived in seclusion in the mountains and forests. He was jealous every day with her. "You're so stupid. How can you live without me?" The white-robed young master's face was as white as jade. The immortal cultivation disciple was pointed at by tens of thousands of people, and he was unwilling to hurt her even if she was destroyed. He returned from his revenge and smiled at her."Master, you can only choose one between me and all living beings." However, Wu Mountain had seen all kinds of beautiful men. She said,"I don't want to reject it either, but I'm taking the script for a one-sided love." So, I can only apologize ~ This article is also known as "The Female Lead Is Poisonous","The Female Lead of Universal Love","Don't Love Me, No Results" The author thought about it for a long time. [Note: There is no fixed male lead. I don't know if there is no CP or CP.] 8."Pulling out a knife, but the crazy person hugged my waist and acted coquettishly": Xie Lan, who had been eating and drinking in the underworld for many years and vowed to destroy the idle people in the underworld, suddenly found himself dragged back to the poor little girl with slightly lower intelligence from the Xie family, a wealthy family in the world of the living! As a good-for-nothing from a wealthy family, she was about to be arranged by her family to marry the crazy Zhong Liyu the moment she opened her eyes. This crazy man was different from other crazy men. He could force a good person into another crazy man. The other party had the face of a harmless youth, and he could drag you into hell just by calling you sister! The first time I met a crazy person- The "young man" smiled and pulled out a ten-pound venomous snake to bite in front of her. He looked like a pervert from a horror movie! Later, the madman grabbed her vitals and wanted to bite her. Xie Lan decisively pulled out his knife. "Good sister, I know I'm wrong!" Feng Pi's expression changed instantly and he hugged her waist. Xie Lan: "Who's your sister? You old man should have some face." -- When Xie Lan was acting with the crazy fans under the identity of a pitiful little girl, there were always people who were blind enough to approach her. Later, some clansmen brought their crippled grandmother to her house and forced her to submit. "Close the door and let the crazy fans out!" Xie Lan laughed evilly. Everyone was waiting to see Xie Lan get played to death… But later, Xie Lan sat on the high seat and crazily kissed her, shocking everyone! Later on, the people in the industry had a common sense. Even if they wanted to provoke a crazy person, they should not provoke the little pitiful person beside him! [Comparing the female protagonist of the crazy batch with the male protagonist of the tamed crazy monster] [P.S.: Male protagonist has a special physique and needs a special living creature to maintain balance (viper)] 9:"I'm selling goods in the live broadcast circle. I'm popular." Lin Xiao, who has been working hard outside for ten years, has no house, no car, and no savings. At the age of 30, she returned to her hometown to plant crops, do live broadcasts, and sell agricultural products. 10:"Running for My Life Everyday": Lin Fenghe, who had transmigrated to another world, was running for his life every day. There was no other reason. The Host had blown up the Hundred Herb Hall of the First Cultivation Academy and released the ten thousand spirit beasts of the Spirit Beast Pavilion. She had also gone to the Temple of Immortals to add some urine to their Resurrection Potion. She had also plucked three tail feathers from the sleeping Fire Phoenix Demon at the Black Dragon Mountain. Then, under the pursuit of a group of people, the original owner died. However, before she died, she had left behind a Soul Summoning Array, which had attracted Lin Fenghe, who had just been killed by an experimental subject in the Otherworld. Lin Fenghe wanted to curse, he didn't want to suffer, but his body couldn't die! Being forced to live forever was even more effective than the resurrection medicine of the Temple of Immortals. Helplessly, in order to live a peaceful life in this world, Lin Fenghe, who didn't want to be tortured and killed thousands of times every day, had to run for his life. However… Why did people say that she was doing all this for the person she loved? This was obviously the original owner… Wait a minute! Something fishy was going on! [No CP] Chapter 11: Forced to the Crematorium after Flirting with a Sick Girl Substitute (cross-dressing + mistaken baby raising + substitute taking over + Sick Girl) * In order to survive, Zhu Huan had played an ancient game, but because of the high degree of freedom, he could not see the main character often. He could only find a secondary character to collect health points. * The main character Wen Qi was a well-known young genius in the cultivation world. He was invincible among his peers with the Daybreak Sword. He was gentle and kind, and was praised by everyone wherever he went. * The smurf account Wen Qi was a nobody in the cultivation world. He lived in the chaotic Haitian Valley. Zhu Huan chose him as the smurf account because he had the same face as Wen Qi and was suitable as a substitute. * "Who are you?" Zhu Huan asked uncertainly when she opened her eyes and saw a familiar face. Wen Qi gently helped her up. He suppressed the darkness in his eyes."I'm Wen Qi. Wen as in warm, and Qi as in Qilu." * Wen Qi had known for as long as he could remember that he had the same appearance and name as a person, but they shared the same name and different lives. He lived in the darkest place, tasted the most bitter pain, and struggled in the mud in a sorry state. However, that person was the complete opposite of him. He bathed in the light and was not stained by dust. * Fortunately, the heavens were always fair. He met a special existence. She said that her name was Zhu Huan. She treated him well for no reason and sent him warmth day after day, gradually making him fall for her. * It was not until that day when she gave him the clothes that Wen Qi would wear and the weapons that he would use. He stared blankly at the reflection of her face on the water and realized that he was just a substitute. * From then on, the young man tasted the taste of jealousy and pulled Zhu Huan into his world at all costs. He wanted to keep her forever, and he also wanted her to understand one thing. Humans needed to be responsible for the things they tamed. * Gao Liang: The beginning is already through the tour After transmigrating to the Immortal Cultivation World, Yang Rongrong worked tirelessly as a bootlicker for more than a hundred years. She had finally managed to get the Sword Saint, Monster King, Demon Lord, and Ghost Emperor's favorability to 100. He thought that he could finally go home, but the system suddenly malfunctioned! All her previous efforts were wasted and she was forced to stay in the cultivation world. Yang Rongrong: "Alright, alright. Must you play me like this?" Then don't blame me for going crazy. …… The Sword Saint asked,"Are the vows you made to me no longer valid?" Yang Rongrong: Love doesn't have to last forever. Just listen to the oath. The Demon King: You said you would love me forever! Yang Rongrong: "I did say that I love you, but I never said that I only love you." Demon Lord: How many predecessors do you have? Yang Rongrong: What ex? They are all my love mentors. The Ghost Emperor asked,"What's your relationship with them?" Yang Rongrong: "Based on the principle of being responsible for love, I never confirm a relationship easily. (The style of writing is relaxed and idiotic, 1v1 mutual favor, stable daily updates, welcome to collect ~) Chapter 13:"It's so cool to collect cards in a love game": What sisterhood and family interests, those are just settings in the game. Why did players have to follow the game's arrangements? Shen Ling 'er decided not to accept the arrangement after realizing that the game had a high degree of freedom and an excellent immersive experience. The author was working hard to save the manuscript. Additional condition: 1. 100,000 copies. 2. Same as above. 3,+1。 …… You can read these novels on Qidian Chinese Network.
"Women don't read Eileen Chang" is not entirely accurate because the number of female readers is not the only determining factor. Zhang Ailing is a great author. Her novels have profound thoughts and unique style, which are deeply loved by readers. Her works not only covered the description of female characters, but also covered the attention to social reality and the exploration of human nature. Therefore, even though the number of female readers was small, her works still had great value and appeal.
I don't like ya novels because the plots are often too simplistic. They lack the complexity and depth that I look for in a good story.
Maybe the story is too slow-paced for me. I need something more exciting and fast-moving.