If it's appropriate, he can offer some empathetic expressions like 'I'm sorry to hear that' or 'That must have been tough'. This shows that he is engaged in the story and cares about what his friend is saying.
Maybe he can't interrupt his friend. Some people have a rule of not interrupting when someone is telling a story. So he just has to listen, even if he wants to do something else or has his own thoughts to add.
Perhaps he could just listen attentively. Sometimes when a friend is telling a story, there's not much one can do but be there and listen. Even if he feels helpless, his presence and attention can be a form of support.
He could be in a situation where he wants to offer help or advice based on the story but is restricted by some external factors. For example, if they are in a public place where he can't speak freely, or if there are social norms that prevent him from interrupting. So he just has to look on helplessly.
Just laugh it off if you can. Sometimes showing that you don't take it too seriously can stop it from being a big deal.
One should listen attentively. Give the man your full attention, make eye contact, and let him know that you are there for him.
First, keep calm. Don't get angry immediately. You can make a self - deprecating joke in response. For instance, say something like 'Haha, that was really me at my worst moment.' This can ease the tension.
Ignore it for the time being, but keep some distance from that friend for a while. If they notice that you're not as close as before, they might figure out on their own that the story they told had a negative impact on you. Later, if they ask, you can calmly explain how it made you feel.
If you're comfortable with it, you can listen with an open mind and maybe even share your own thoughts. But if it makes you uncomfortable, calmly tell her how you feel.
If you are uncomfortable with the story, it's okay to let her know gently. Say something like 'I'm not really comfortable with this kind of story. Can we talk about something else?' This way, you are being honest about your feelings while also maintaining respect for her.
Well, you can start by expressing your discomfort right away. Let her know that this kind of story is not something you want to hear in a marriage. Then, you might want to have a deeper conversation about boundaries and respect in your relationship. Maybe you can share your own thoughts on what is appropriate to talk about and what isn't. It's also crucial to listen to her side, perhaps she didn't realize how inappropriate it was. But overall, make it clear that this kind of behavior needs to stop for the health of your relationship.