One big issue is different schedules. You can share your schedules in advance and find common free time to talk. Communication breakdown is also common. Keep communication open and don't let small misunderstandings build up. Listen to each other's feelings and concerns. Also, feeling lonely is a problem. Join some clubs or activities to keep yourself busy but also share those experiences with your partner.
A common problem is lack of physical presence. To solve it, plan regular visits. Another problem is jealousy. Build trust by being honest. For example, if you go to a party, just tell your partner.
Well, take the case of Alex and Maria. They were in long - distance college relationships. They were honest with each other from the start. They talked about their fears and insecurities. They made an effort to be part of each other's college life. For example, they joined the same online study groups. And they are now engaged. It shows that being involved in each other's life despite the distance can lead to success.
Another problem is the impact on their social circle. If their friends find out about their friends with benefits situation, it can lead to a lot of gossip and judgment. In college, word spreads fast, and they might face unwanted attention or even lose some friends who don't approve of such relationships.
In successful college long - distance relationships such as James and Lily's, they found ways to be involved in each other's lives from a distance. They watched the same movies at the same time while on video call and then discussed it afterwards. They also made sure to surprise each other with small things like sending a care package with homemade cookies or a favorite book. This kept the relationship fresh and exciting, and they were able to make it through their college years apart.
In long - distance relationships stories, the theme of growth is quite prevalent. Partners grow independently and also as a couple. They learn to be more self - reliant. For example, a guy in a long - distance relationship learned to cook for himself because his girlfriend wasn't there to cook for him. Another common theme is the importance of planning. Couples need to plan their visits carefully. In one story, a couple planned their visits around each other's work schedules and holidays months in advance. And finally, there's the theme of emotional resilience. They have to be able to handle the stress and sadness of being apart, like when one partner is sick and the other can't be there immediately.
Lack of physical intimacy is a big one. Not being able to hold, kiss or just be close to your partner can make you feel lonely and sad. Another cause is the time difference. It can make communication difficult and you might miss important moments to talk.
One major challenge is communication breakdowns. Sometimes, due to technical problems or misinterpretation of texts or emails, misunderstandings can occur easily in online long - distance relationships. Additionally, there's the challenge of building a shared life. Since you're far apart, it's difficult to create common memories and experiences in the same way as a normal couple. And of course, the financial burden of traveling to see each other can also put a strain on the relationship.
Self - motivation also plays a huge role. In long - distance college, there's no one constantly pushing you. So, students need to be self - driven. They have to initiate their study sessions and keep up with the curriculum without external pressure. Many successful students are those who are highly motivated to achieve their educational goals.
Time differences can be a big issue. I've read stories where one partner is awake and working while the other is sleeping. It makes it hard to find time to communicate properly. Also, there's often a feeling of insecurity. Since they can't be around each other all the time, they might worry about the other finding someone else. It's like in this one story where a girl was constantly worried her partner was meeting new people at her new place.
Communication is key. Couples need to talk regularly, like having daily video calls or phone chats. Trust also plays a big role. Without trust, one might be constantly worried about the other. Another factor is having a plan for the future, for example, knowing when they will be together again.
Long distance relationship novels can offer inspiration. For example, seeing how fictional characters in similar situations stay committed can motivate real - life couples. They can also provide comfort, making people feel that they are not alone in facing the difficulties of being apart.