You can just be a friend. Try to be there for them without expecting anything in return. For example, if they are sad because of a break - up, listen to their stories and offer a shoulder to cry on.
Well, there was this girl I had a crush on. She was dealing with family issues which made her really sad all the time. I was so into her that I tried to be there for her. But she was in such a dark place that she didn't even notice my feelings. Eventually, she had to move away with her family to another city to start anew. I was left with this unrequited crush and a sad story of what could have been.
Once I had a crush on a girl in my class. I would always try to sit near her, but she never really noticed me. One day, I finally gathered the courage to ask her out, but she told me she liked someone else. It was heart - breaking. I felt like all the time I spent thinking about her was wasted.
Listen to them. Just giving them a chance to talk about their sad stories can be a great help. It makes them feel heard and understood.
One way to 'crush' a very sad story is to focus on the positive aspects that might be hidden within it. For instance, if it's a story about a loss, think about how the characters might grow stronger from the experience. Another way is to share it with others. Sometimes, just talking about the sad parts can make you feel better as you realize others can empathize.
There was a boy who had a crush on a girl in his club. He wrote her love letters but never signed them. One day, the girl announced she was moving for college and she was in love with someone else. The boy was heartbroken as he realized he had missed his chance and his anonymous letters had never led to anything.
There was this one girl in high school. She had a crush on the most popular boy in school. She tried to change herself to fit into his world. She started wearing clothes she didn't like and listening to music she didn't enjoy. But in the end, the boy didn't even give her a second glance. It was a really sad realization for her that she had been trying so hard for someone who didn't care.
One way is to keep yourself busy. Throw yourself into work, study or hobbies. For example, if you like painting, spend more time on it. This way, you don't have much time to think about the sad crush.
" The Sad Little Thing of a Secret Love " was a story about a school. It mainly revolved around the girl Lin Xu's secret love for the popular young man, Ye Feng. Lin Xu knew Ye Feng very well. In order to see Ye Feng's back, she calculated the exact time to go out every day. She knew that Feng Ye's favorite song was " Luzhou Moon " by Xu Song, the announcer of the school radio station. For the encouragement of Ye Feng, she worked hard to become the first in class and changed her image. She learned to dress up and apply makeup. She had always tried her best to play the role of a friend who was worthy of Ye Feng. Through Lin Xu's secret love story, this book explored the psychology of secret love and the theme of growth.
Sadly, some stories end in despair. A person missing a deceased loved one might never fully recover from the grief. They may constantly be in a state of longing and sadness, and the missing might become a part of their identity that they can't shake off, always feeling that there's an empty space in their life that can't be filled.
John, you could start by making a plan. Figure out what parts of your situation you can control and work on those. For example, if it's a job - related sadness, look for new opportunities or ways to improve your skills.