Well, it depends on how you feel about it. If you're comfortable with it, there's no problem. However, if you're worried about how you look or if it might be used in an inappropriate way, you should approach her. Maybe say something like 'Hey, I noticed you took a photo of me for your snap story. I'm not really feeling confident about it, could you not post it?' Be nice but firm.
First, consider your relationship with this girl. If she's a friend, it might be easier to communicate. If it's a stranger, it could be a bit more awkward. You might want to check the privacy settings of Snapchat too. In case she does post it and you don't want a wide audience to see it, you can limit the visibility on your end. Another option is to offer to take a better photo with her where you both look good, so she can use that instead of the one she already took.
To ensure it's a good photo, first of all, your appearance matters. Tidy up your hair and clothes if possible. Then, when it comes to the composition, position yourself in the center or according to the rule of thirds if you know about it. Angle your body slightly to create a more interesting look. As for your expression, a genuine smile usually works best. You can also engage with the camera by making eye contact. And don't forget to communicate with the girl taking the photo. Let her know if there's something specific you want, like a close - up or a full - body shot.
First, you should listen attentively. Give her your full attention, make eye contact and nod to show that you are engaged. This will make her feel respected.
You could start by sending her a friendly message thanking her for including you. It's a simple and positive way to show that you notice.
Well, first of all, don't panic. She might have added you because she considers you a friend or is interested in getting to know you better. Look at the content of the private story. If it's personal and seems like she's sharing something special, it could be a sign that she trusts you. You can engage with it in a friendly and respectful way, like asking a relevant question about what she shared.
First, feel flattered. It means she might consider you as someone special among her friends. You can start by simply leaving a nice comment or reaction to show your appreciation. If you're interested in getting closer to her, you could use this as an opportunity to start a private conversation about the content of the story, like saying 'I really liked that photo in your private story. It made me think of a great memory.' This can help you build a deeper connection.
Well, you could start by checking out what she usually posts in her public stories. If her content seems interesting and positive, you might simply enjoy the privilege of seeing her private stories. Maybe it's her way of getting to know you better or sharing something special with you.
First, don't overthink it. It might be that she considers you a friend and thought you'd be interested in her private story. You can simply enjoy the content she shares. If you want to interact more, you can reply to the story in a respectful and friendly way. For example, if it's about a hobby she has, you can say something like 'That's so cool, I've always wanted to try that too!' This can help build a better connection between you two.
Ask her a question related to the snap. If she posted a snap about a book she's reading, you could say 'That book looks interesting. What do you like about it so far?'. This shows that you're interested in what she shared.
Give her some space for a while. Don't be pushy. If she removed you, she might need some time alone. After some time, you can casually start a conversation about general things and see if the relationship can be rebuilt to the point where she might add you back to her private story sharing list.
The photo was taken by Kevin Carter.