I'm sorry, but this sounds like a very inappropriate and disturbing situation. If this is a real story, it should be reported to the authorities immediately as it could involve abuse or improper behavior.
There's not enough information here to really tell the full story. It could be a misperception or a malicious rumor. Maybe mom was just having a friendly conversation with older men at the bar and someone misinterpreted it in a very wrong way.
Mom can start by being aware of her surroundings. She should avoid being alone with suspicious older men. If she feels uncomfortable, she should leave the bar immediately.
This is a very disturbing scenario. One possible reason could be that the husband has some sort of abnormal psychological state, perhaps he has a voyeuristic tendency or some deep - seated issues within the relationship that make him act in such a non - traditional and unethical way.
I'm not sure specifically what the 'used by old men story' is without more context. It could be a story that is often told among old men, perhaps a traditional tale, a war story, or an anecdote from their youth.
This is an inappropriate and unethical scenario. In a civilized society, such actions of violence are unacceptable. Bars should be places for people to socialize in a friendly and respectful manner.
I'm not sure specifically which 'being crossdress by mom story' you are referring to. It could be about a situation where a mom dresses her child in the clothes typically associated with the opposite gender, perhaps for fun, like a mother dressing her son in a princess dress for a family photo or a play at home.
It could be that mom was used to make the party more homely. She might have cooked some special dishes that are her signature and that made the party more enjoyable for the guests.
One positive story could be about an older man who volunteers at a local school. He helps children with reading difficulties. He uses his life experiences to make the learning process fun and relatable for the kids.
There was an older man who ran a small bookstore. He knew every book in his store and could recommend the perfect one for any customer. His passion for books and his eagerness to share knowledge made him a local treasure.
This is a rather inappropriate and objectifying topic. We should focus on positive, respectful and non - objectifying story concepts. For example, a story could be about older men being more focused on their health through jogging rather than such improper themes.
One common theme could be the exploration of self - identity within the context of multiple relationships. For example, a character might be trying to figure out what he truly desires in a relationship while being involved with several men. Another theme could be about acceptance, both from society and within the gay community itself. Sometimes, in these stories, the main character has to deal with judgment from others because of his situation. Also, love and lust can be intertwined themes. There might be situations where the physical attraction to multiple men is initially strong, but over time, deeper emotional connections start to form with some of them.