Be honest. Always stick to the facts that you know are true.
Verify information before sharing. If you're not sure about something, don't say it as if it's true. For example, if you hear a rumor, check with reliable sources first. Also, think about the consequences of what you're about to say. If it could mislead or harm someone, don't say it. Another important thing is to admit when you're wrong. If you realize you've told something false, correct it immediately.
Well, it depends on the context. If it's a fictional story for entertainment like a fairy tale or a made - up adventure, it's okay. But if it's passing off lies as truth in a serious situation, that's bad. For example, in a courtroom or in business negotiations, false stories can have serious legal and financial consequences.
You can also shift the focus. Instead of getting to the end, start talking about a related side story or a character's backstory. For instance, in a love story, rather than revealing if the couple gets married in the end, start talking about how they first met their respective best friends. This diverts attention from the main story's end.
Stick to the facts. If it's a story based on real events, do research and make sure all the details are accurate.
To avoid a long pointless story, first, identify your audience. If you're talking to a busy colleague, you need to be more to - the - point. Second, focus on the key events or ideas. If it's a story about a project at work, talk about the main challenges and solutions, not every little chat you had with every co - worker. Third, rehearse your story in your head briefly before sharing it. This can help you cut out the fluff and make it more purposeful.
Be conscious of the topic. Always think before you speak. If you're not sure if a story might be related to sex, it's better not to share it.
First, you can set a time limit for yourself when you start to tell a story. This forces you to be more focused and not go on and on. Second, listen to how others tell stories. Notice the ones that are engaging yet not overly long. Try to imitate their style. Third, ask for feedback from friends or colleagues. They can tell you if you tend to be long - winded and give suggestions on how to improve.
Stay focused on the main idea. Before you start telling a story, figure out what the key point is that you want to convey. For example, if it's about a funny incident at work, don't deviate into talking about your commute to work unless it's relevant to the incident.
Try to explore multiple perspectives. By looking at a situation from different angles, you can add depth and complexity to your narrative.
We can start by being more open - minded. Listen to different voices and seek out alternative perspectives. For example, when reading news, don't just rely on one source but look at multiple sources that might present different sides. Also, in conversations, encourage others to share their side of the story. If you're in a group discussion, make sure everyone has an equal chance to speak up.
Well, in daily conversations, we can avoid this by being empathetic. Try to put yourself in the other person's shoes. If you're talking about a job situation, think about how the other employees might feel. Also, seek out different voices. If you're part of a group chat and most people have one view, look for someone who might have a different take. And when you do talk, present all the relevant facts that you know, not just the ones that support your view.