A boy in such a situation may also express his true self in private. He might keep a journal where he writes about his real feelings as a boy and his dreams of living as his true self. He could also create a secret space in his room where he can be himself, away from the forced 'girl' identity.
He might initially feel very confused and resistant. But some boys may gradually adapt in order to survive in that situation. They may learn to play the role that is forced upon them while secretly longing for their true identity.
He could try to find support. This might be from a few understanding friends or family members who see the wrong in what's happening. They can offer emotional support and help him resist if possible.
The boy might also find support from other family members or friends. They can act as mediators between him and his mother, or just be there to listen and offer emotional support. Another way is to engage in activities that he enjoys and that make him feel like himself. For example, if he likes sports, he can continue to play sports even with his new look. This can help him maintain a sense of identity.
The girl might cope by talking to her friends. Sharing her feelings with them can make her feel better.
One possible reason could be cultural traditions. In some cultures, there might be certain superstitions or practices that force a boy to live as a girl. For example, if a family has a series of misfortunes and they believe that having a 'female - like' son can change their luck. Another reason could be the result of family pressure. Maybe the family has always wanted a girl and decides to raise the boy as a girl, forcing him to wear girls' clothes, engage in girl - like activities, etc.
He probably feels embarrassed. Dressing in a way that goes against his gender identity in public or even in private can be mortifying.
The impact on his self - identity depends on many factors. If he has a strong support system at home, his parents can help him understand that this is just a temporary situation and that it doesn't change who he is as a boy. But if he doesn't have that support, the experience could be very damaging. He may internalize the female behaviors he is forced to do and start to feel like he doesn't belong in the male gender category. This could lead to him suppressing his true male characteristics and developing insecurities about his masculinity.
He would probably feel embarrassed. After all, being forced to dress and look like a girl is not something most boys expect or want.
At first, he could be angry. After all, his autonomy is being taken away. But as time passes, he may start to have mixed feelings. He could find some aspects of the girl's clothing comfortable or interesting, while still being resentful of the situation. He might also start to empathize more with girls if he experiences some of the things they do while dressed as one, like the way people interact with him differently or the types of comments he gets.
He may initially feel a sense of shock. It's unexpected to be forced into such a situation. And as time goes on, if he can't escape this forced dressing, he could feel a deep sense of helplessness. He might be constantly worried about what others will think of him and may start to withdraw from social interactions out of fear of being ridiculed.
He might feel embarrassed. Dressing as a girl goes against the traditional gender norms he is used to, and he may be worried about what others will think of him. He could also feel angry that his will is being violated and he is being forced into something he doesn't want to do.