Femdom stories often involve themes of female dominance in relationships. However, the idea of'sexually selfish' is a rather complex and subjective concept. One story could be about a woman who is in charge of all the decisions in the relationship, from date nights to household chores division, in a dominant way.
One common characteristic is a strong sense of control. In these stories, the femdom women usually take charge of various aspects of the relationship. Another is a focus on their own desires. They are more likely to ensure their own needs are met first.
Femdom stories often involve power dynamics. However, the idea of a'selfish woman sitting on a man' in this context can be seen in scenarios where the female dominant takes a position of control. For example, in a role - playing situation, the woman might sit on the man to assert her dominance, perhaps as part of a disciplinary act within their consensual power - exchange relationship.
One such story could be about a female CEO who naturally takes on a dominant role in the workplace. She is assertive, makes quick decisions, and commands respect from her male and female colleagues alike. Her leadership style is firm but fair, and she uses her natural dominance to drive the company forward in a competitive market.
One example could be a woman who constantly brags about her conquests with men in a way that objectifies them, just to boost her own ego. Another might be a woman who uses tales of men she's been with to manipulate other people's opinions of her, without considering how it might affect those men's reputations.
One well - known story could be from certain feminist - leaning novels where female characters take charge in relationships in a dominant way. For example, in Charlotte Perkins Gilman's 'Herland', the women are in control of their society and have a very different dynamic with men when they encounter them. They are assertive and in charge, which can be seen as a form of a femdom - like concept in a non - sexualized but still dominant way.
One story could be about a femdom woman who is a workaholic. She uses a man to do all the household chores for her own convenience. For example, she makes him cook, clean, and do the laundry while she focuses on her career. She doesn't really consider his feelings in this matter, just using him to free up her time for her selfish pursuit of professional success.
Another story is 'The Hunger Games' where Katniss Everdeen is a dominant female. She volunteered for the Hunger Games to save her sister. In the arena, she showed great leadership, making alliances and ultimately defying the Capitol's control.
Firstly, men need to be aware of the potential of such situations. They should not be too eager to open up completely. In relationships, keep communication lines open but also be guarded. If a woman seems to have a habit of using others' stories for her own gain, men can distance themselves. Also, in social situations, be discreet. For example, in a group setting, don't let alcohol or peer pressure make you share things that could be used against you later. And if a story is spread about you, don't be afraid to confront the woman privately and demand that she stops, or if necessary, take legal action if it involves slander or libel.
Sharing such stories might promote negative stereotypes. Women should be seen in a positive and equal light, not defined by so - called 'aggressive' sexual behavior in a one - sided way.
There are some stories in the realm of alternative sexual literature where women are portrayed as sexually dominant over men. For example, in some BDSM - themed fictional stories. But this is a very niche area and should be consumed with an understanding of its fictional and often consensual - within - the - story context. In real - life relationships, healthy sexual relationships are based on mutual respect and equality, not so much on one - sided dominance.