Seeking the expression of traditional literature on the following related issues?

I had always thought that the contradictions between sex and marriage were more prominent in post-modernism (including liberation and freedom. At that time, I was watching Annie Baby. Although there were contradictions between feelings and sex, they were not sharp enough to influence the plot). However, when I read Du Lala 1, I had some feelings. I didn't care at that time. Recently, I read some novels by Chen Zhiyao, naked marriage, Mi Meng's evil interest essays, etc. I had to stop and think about such a problem.
Because most of the writers were 70-80 years old, they had a relatively full understanding of marriage. They often mentioned in their novels, such as Du Lala 1, Wang Wei and his ex-girlfriend had sex (at that time, Wang and Du were very harmonious and happy), but this matter (caused by owing or other psychological reasons) actually happened not so melodramatic, but very natural, even reasonable. I don't know how to understand or resolve such contradictions as the parties involved. There is no one who is alone. In Chen Zhiyao's song, the heroine and her ex-boyfriend (childhood sweethearts) are in a seaside villa. This kind of plot seems very natural under the development of the main structure. Although the two novels I listed ended with a prince and princess ending, it is obvious that the author did not properly solve this problem raised by himself. Ask for an answer
I didn't expect to have a mental affair (I'm a good kid, yeah), but my perception has deviated (of course, I also believe that the probability of these things happening is very high), but I think this at least reflects a problem. The mainstream doesn't allow us to do this, but it doesn't mean that it won't happen, right? I'm a very normal person,=.= He did not use this as an excuse to look for anything. The author of the novel was ahead of the times, which meant that such a thing might happen in the future. Premarital pregnancy seemed acceptable now, as long as both parties could have a future and could give each other's loved ones support and understanding. The sooner or later of marriage only represents whether there is time to fulfill it (I am thinking positively), and I feel that your understanding is different from my statement (I have a class in the afternoon and was too rushed to express it properly). It is not because I am looking for excitement, nor is it because it is boring, but in a completely reasonable environment, how can I have a good explanation for this? thanks

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