Can you recommend an early short story that deals with the feelings between humans and ghosts?

It shouldn't be considered a novel. I read it from a ghost story book. It was written that there was a bamboo spirit [I think so] who fell in love with a human, so she went to get close to him. That man also liked her very much, but it was only like a sister's love. After that, the bamboo spirit became his slave, and he named her "Su Su". After that, the man married another bride.[There are already many things that I don't remember. After that, it seemed that bamboo bloomed. Su Su turned into a bamboo petal and floated in the wind. She floated to the city that the man had been in. The man seemed to have committed some crime, and his head was hung high above the city gate.] Then, the bamboo flower gently touched him and flew away.
I like this short story very much, even though it was written in 2009. I read it in the library, but I couldn't find it anywhere.

Answer 1

I don't think it'll necessarily meet your needs, but I'll try my best to recommend a novel that's most relevant to your description."Night Talks at a Haunted House" is a short-story novel written by the author who refuses to use false words. The general plot of this novel is:

"Haunted House Night Talks", also known as "Ghost Stories", was a collection of horror stories that he had put in a lot of effort to release. If you saw this series of stories at night when you were alone, it was best not to read it because every story in this series was extremely scary.
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After many years of hard work, the ghost emissary Chu Qi realized that he was a ghost with a story, and a ghost with a family…
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"The Ghost's Record" was a suspense novel written by the author, Bloodstained Ghost. The general plot of the novel was:

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The ancients said that the officials in the human world judged the cases in the human world, and the officials in the underworld judged the grievances of ghosts and spirits. However, there was still a unique kind of person in the world. He judged the difference between yin and yang and cut off the gap between life and death. He would be the judge of the kindness and hatred between humans and demons.
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This was a nostalgic story.
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