"I always care about other people's comments. Sometimes, I even impose my subjective imagination on others. No matter what I do, I feel that others are looking at me."
This kind of situation often appeared in novels and was called glass heart or social anxiety disorder. This kind of plot usually appeared on the protagonist because they often had to face all kinds of pressure and doubts in social situations. In real life, having a glass heart and social anxiety can cause people to feel anxious, insecure, and depressed. To alleviate this situation, you can try the following methods: 1. Understand your own needs and desires. Understand what you really want and work hard to pursue it. Learn to accept criticism and opinions but don't pay too much attention to them. The important thing is to understand other people's point of view and not to impose your own point of view on others. 3. Cultivate confidence. Increase your self-confidence by improving your skills and knowledge or trying new things. 4. Maintain a positive attitude. Learn to see the positive side of life and try to find the source of happiness and satisfaction. 5. Seeking support. Communicate with family, friends, or professionals to get support and advice to help you cope with difficulties.
My whole body feels unnatural when there are people around, and I always feel that others are looking at me. Is everyone's puberty like this?
This kind of situation did not happen to everyone during puberty. Puberty is a period of physical development and change. There may be some physical discomfort and unnatural feelings, but this does not mean that everyone will experience this situation. Some people may experience psychological discomfort during puberty, such as anxiety, nervousness, shame, or uneasiness. These emotions might affect an individual's behavior and perception, causing them to feel that someone was observing them. However, not everyone would experience this, so it could not be said that everyone would experience this feeling during puberty. If you feel uncomfortable or worried, it is recommended to seek help from professionals such as a psychiatrist or counselor.
Sometimes I feel that I have feelings after watching a movie or reading a novel, but when I want to share my feelings with others, I feel that I always say no.
This feeling is very common, especially when we read or watch a very touching or profound work. Our emotions and feelings may become very complicated and difficult to express accurately in words. This is a challenge of self-expression and communication because everyone's emotions and feelings are unique, so it's best to follow the following tips when sharing your feelings: 1. Choose the right time and place to share your feelings. It's best to share your feelings in private so that others won't feel uncomfortable or interfere with your feelings. 2. Try to describe your feelings in simple words. Try to describe your feelings in simple words and avoid using overly complicated words and sentences to ensure that others can understand what you mean. 3. Sharing specific examples and plots. Sharing specific examples and plots to help others better understand their feelings. Accept feedback and suggestions from others. Don't be afraid to accept feedback and suggestions from others. It can help you better understand your feelings and improve your way of expressing yourself. Most importantly, sharing your feelings is a good way to release your emotions and feelings, and at the same time, it can help others understand and resonate.
In the process of writing a novel, I always feel that others write better than me, what should I do?
Writing a novel was an art and a creative process. Everyone would have different inspirations and experiences in writing. Sometimes, we feel that our works are inferior to others. This is very normal. However, we can't give up on our pursuit and improvement in our own creation. Here are some suggestions that might help: Read and write more. Reading can also broaden our horizons and writing skills. Writing more and practicing more can improve our writing and expression skills. 2. Learn from the successful experiences of others. Sometimes we find inspiration from other works, and these experiences can help us better complete our own works. However, we must pay attention to learning from the experience of others and not plagiarize or over-borrow. 3. Find your own style and characteristics. Everyone's writing style and characteristics are different. We need to find our own strengths and characteristics to create better works. We can find our own writing style and characteristics by writing more and practicing more. 4. Continuous modification and improvement. Writing is a process of continuous improvement and improvement. We can't finish everything at once. We need to constantly modify and improve our works to achieve better results. We can't give up on our own works just because others write better than us. We need to find our own advantages and characteristics and constantly improve and perfect our works. Only through constant effort and practice can we write better works.
Why do I always feel that what I write is so different from what others write when I read what others write?
This was a very common problem for many. This could be due to many reasons, including but not limited to the following: High expectations: Many people think they should be better than others. However, this expectation may lead them to over-criticize and self-criticize themselves and feel that they are inadequate. 2. Many of them may not have experienced a similar creative process and thus cannot fully understand the difficulties and challenges that others encounter when creating. Different writing styles: Everyone's writing style is different. Some people may be good at narration while others are good at description. When you see others, you might feel that their writing style is different from your own, so you feel that you are not good enough. 4. A lack of confidence: Many of these may lead to a lack of confidence in themselves, thinking that they can't write better. 5. Not reading enough: Reading is an important way to improve writing skills. If you don't have enough reading experience, you won't be able to understand other things deeply, and you won't be able to find your own shortcomings in writing. In summary, all of these reasons can lead to feeling different from others. In order to solve this problem, he had to write more and communicate more to improve his creative skills.
Why do I sometimes feel that she likes me, but sometimes I feel that I'm a little too sentimental?
This feeling was very common, especially in a relationship. Sometimes we feel that the other person likes us, but sometimes we doubt our own feelings. This is because humans are very complex creatures. Our emotions and thoughts are affected by many factors, including our experience, culture, personality, environment, and so on. This was especially common in relationships. When we start dating, we may feel that the other party is paying attention and taking care of us, which makes us feel that the other party might like us. However, we may also doubt whether the other party really likes us because of some reasons such as our self-doubt, anxiety, distrust, etc. To solve this problem, we need to recognize that our doubts and uneasiness are normal. We need to trust our own feelings and trust each other's feelings. Through more communication and communication, we can understand each other's thoughts and feelings to determine whether they like us or not. At the same time, we can also reduce unnecessary doubts by increasing our confidence and charm to make ourselves more attractive.
I want to write a novel, but I always find that my plot is similar to others
When writing a novel, it was common to find that one's plot was similar to others, especially when it was hard to avoid the collision of inspiration in the plot and theme when one started writing. This kind of situation might cause the plot that he wanted to have to be very similar to the plot of others. To avoid this situation, you can refer to the following suggestions: 1. Stick to your own ideas: Writing is a creative process. You should stick to your own ideas even if they are similar to other people's works. Try to create a unique story from your own world instead of simply copying someone else's work. 2. Create unique characters: Every story has its own character. You should strive to create unique and unforgettable characters. Their backgrounds, personalities, and motives should make them different from other characters in other works. 3. Find your own theme: When writing, try to find your own theme and integrate it into the story. The topic could be about love, friendship, family, power, freedom, and so on. By exploring your own theme, you can create a more meaningful and unique story. 4. Multiple Revisions: During the writing process, you should revise and polish your work many times to ensure its quality and uniqueness. Modifications could include deleting useless content, rearranging the plot and characters, and making adjustments to the language and style. Hopefully, these suggestions will help you avoid discovering that your plot is similar to someone else's when writing. Writing takes time and patience. As long as you persevere, you will definitely create a unique story.
Why do I always feel sick every day? Sometimes I feel that I have a terminal illness and I don't have long to live. Moreover, no matter how I think about it, I really feel that something is wrong.
This could be a phenomenon of self-awareness error, also known as self-doubt or self-doubting. This situation may be caused by our inner contradictions and uneasiness, which makes us feel anxious and depressed. Self-cognitive dissonance can affect our mental health and happiness, so we can try to alleviate this situation by: 1. Seek psychological consultation: A counselor can help understand the cause of this situation and provide appropriate advice and treatment. Practice meditation and deep breathing: Meditation and deep breathing can help us relax and reduce stress and anxiety. 3. Build an active lifestyle: Maintain a healthy diet and adequate sleep. Regular exercise and avoid unhealthy habits such as excessive drinking and smoking. 4. Learn to relax and reduce stress: Relax your body and mind through music, art, reading, travel, and other means to reduce stress and anxiety. Hopefully, these suggestions can help alleviate the phenomenon of self-cognitive imbalance and improve our mental health and happiness.
Why do I always feel empty and lonely in my heart after watching a soap opera? I feel so lonely. Sometimes I envy that
Soap operas are usually a fictional form of entertainment filled with exaggerated plots, fake characters, and lengthy dialogue. When people watch soap operas, they tend to be immersed in the fictional world and ignore the real interpersonal relationships and social life in reality. After watching a soap opera, people will feel empty and lonely in their hearts. This is because there is a huge difference between the fictional world and the real world. People need to find a real sense of existence and satisfaction in real life. In addition, soap operas often lacked deep emotional communication and real interpersonal relationships. After watching soap operas, people would feel that they lacked the support and care of intimate relationships, so they felt lonely and lost. Sometimes people would feel envious of the fake characters and exaggerated plots in soap operas because they might yearn for similar exaggerated and false self-images to ease their anxiety and uneasiness. Although watching soap operas was a form of entertainment, it would also bring people a sense of emptiness and loneliness. People needed to find a real sense of existence and satisfaction in real life.
Why do I always feel that sometimes real life and dreams overlap?
There may be some overlap and similarities between dreams and reality, which may be due to some form of interference or confusion in the brain's processing of information. This phenomenon was known as the overlapping of dreams. Overlapping dreams could be expressed by feeling that one had experienced certain scenes or plots in the dream in real life. For example, you might see a person who feels as if they are beside you, but in fact, they are not really there. Overlapping dreams could also be manifested as feeling that one's thoughts or emotions had returned to a certain moment or scene in the past. The experience might make one feel as if they had traveled to another world, but it was actually just a chaotic phenomenon of the brain's processing. It was important to note that overlapping dreams was not necessarily a good experience. In some cases, it may be considered a disturbance or a nuisance that may need to be alleviated by other means. For example, he could try meditation or relaxation exercises to reduce the occurrence of overlapping dreams.
Why do I always feel that sometimes real life and dreams overlap?
In real life, we often feel that certain scenes or plots in our dreams have similar experiences in reality. This phenomenon is called "reality-overlapping dreams"(reality-dream overlap). This phenomenon might be related to the brain's information processing and integration. When we sleep, our brains process and integrate information from our body's senses and the environment. During this information processing process, the brain might confuse the information in the dream with the information in reality, resulting in an overlapping experience of reality and dream. This phenomenon may play an important role in our subconscious because many of our thoughts and emotions may appear in our dreams and may affect our behavior and feelings in real life. Although the experience of reality-dream overlap can be confusing and disturbing, it can also be a beneficial experience in some situations, such as helping us better understand our subconscious and emotions.